Title: Letters on the equality of the sexes, and the condition of woman
Author: Grimke, Sarah Moore
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                                LETTERS

                                ON THE

                        EQUALITY OF THE SEXES,

                                AND THE

                          CONDITION OF WOMAN.


                             ADDRESSED TO

                            MARY S. PARKER,

                           PRESIDENT OF THE

                  Boston Female Anti-Slavery Society.


                                BOSTON:
                       PUBLISHED BY ISAAC KNAPP,
                             25, CORNHILL.

                                 1838.



                               LETTERS.



                               LETTER I.

                    THE ORIGINAL EQUALITY OF WOMAN.


                                        _Amesbury, 7th Mo. 11th, 1837._

MY DEAR FRIEND,--In attempting to comply with thy request to give my
views on the Province of Woman, I feel that I am venturing on nearly
untrodden ground, and that I shall advance arguments in opposition to
a corrupt public opinion, and to the perverted interpretation of Holy
Writ, which has so universally obtained. But I am in search of truth;
and no obstacle shall prevent my prosecuting that search, because I
believe the welfare of the world will be materially advanced by every
new discovery we make of the designs of Jehovah in the creation of
woman. It is impossible that we can answer the purpose of our being,
unless we understand that purpose. It is impossible that we should
fulfil our duties, unless we comprehend them; or live up to our
privileges, unless we know what they are.

In examining this important subject, I shall depend solely on the
Bible to designate the sphere of woman, because I believe almost every
thing that has been written on this subject, has been the result of
a misconception of the simple truths revealed in the Scriptures, in
consequence of the false translation of many passages of Holy Writ. My
mind is entirely delivered from the superstitious reverence which is
attached to the English version of the Bible. King James’s translators
certainly were not inspired. I therefore claim the original as my
standard, _believing that to have been inspired_, and I also claim to
judge for myself what is the meaning of the inspired writers, because
I believe it to be the solemn duty of every individual to search the
Scriptures for themselves, with the aid of the Holy Spirit, and not be
governed by the views of any man, or set of men.

We must first view woman at the period of her creation. ‘And God said,
Let us make man in our own image, after our likeness; and let them have
dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and
over the cattle, and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing
that creepeth upon the earth. So God created man in his own image, in
the image of God created he him, male and female created he them.’
In all this sublime description of the creation of man, (which is a
generic term including man and woman,) there is not one particle of
difference intimated as existing between them. They were both made in
the image of God; dominion was given to both over every other creature,
but not over each other. Created in perfect equality, they were
expected to exercise the vicegerence intrusted to them by their Maker,
in harmony and love.

Let us pass on now to the recapitulation of the creation of man:--‘The
Lord God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his
nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul. And the Lord
God said, it is not good that man should be alone, I will make him an
help meet for him.’ All creation swarmed with animated beings capable
of natural affection, as we know they still are; it was not, therefore,
merely to give man a creature susceptible of loving, obeying, and
looking up to him, for all that the animals could do and did do. It
was to give him a companion, _in all respects_ his equal; one who was
like himself _a free agent_, gifted with intellect and endowed with
immortality; not a partaker merely of his animal gratifications, but
able to enter into all his feelings as a moral and responsible being.
If this had not been the case, how could she have been an help meet for
him? I understand this as applying not only to the parties entering
into the marriage contract, but to all men and women, because I believe
God designed woman to be an help meet for man in every good and perfect
work. She was a part of himself, as if Jehovah designed to make the
oneness and identity of man and woman perfect and complete; and when
the glorious work of their creation was finished, ‘the morning stars
sang together, and all the sons of God shouted for joy.’

This blissful condition was not long enjoyed by our first parents. Eve,
it would seem from the history, was wandering alone amid the bowers
of Paradise, when the serpent met with her. From her reply to Satan,
it is evident that the command not to eat ‘of the tree that is in the
midst of the garden,’ was given to both, although the term man was
used when the prohibition was issued by God. ‘And the woman said unto
the serpent, WE may eat of the fruit of the trees of the garden, but
of the fruit of the tree which is in the midst of the garden, God hath
said, YE shall not eat of it, neither shall YE touch it, lest YE die.’
Here the woman was exposed to temptation from a being with whom she was
unacquainted. She had been accustomed to associate with her beloved
partner, and to hold communion with God and with angels; but of satanic
intelligence, she was in all probability entirely ignorant. Through the
subtlety of the serpent, she was beguiled. And ‘when she saw that the
tree was good for food, and that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a
tree to be desired to make one wise, she took of the fruit thereof and
did eat.’

We next find Adam involved in the same sin, not through the
instrumentality of a supernatural agent, but through that of his equal,
a being whom he must have known was liable to transgress the divine
command, because he must have felt that he was himself a free agent,
and that he was restrained from disobedience only by the exercise of
faith and love towards his Creator. Had Adam tenderly reproved his
wife, and endeavored to lead her to repentance instead of sharing
in her guilt, I should be much more ready to accord to man that
superiority which he claims; but as the facts stand disclosed by the
sacred historian, it appears to me that to say the least, there was
as much weakness exhibited by Adam as by Eve. They both fell from
innocence, and consequently from happiness, _but not from equality_.

Let us next examine the conduct of this fallen pair, when Jehovah
interrogated them respecting their fault. They both frankly confessed
their guilt. ‘The man said, the woman whom thou gavest to be with
me, she gave me of the tree and I did eat. And the woman said, the
serpent beguiled me and I did eat.’ And the Lord God said unto the
woman, ‘Thou wilt be subject unto thy husband, and he will rule over
thee.’ That this did not allude to the subjection of woman to man is
manifest, because the same mode of expression is used in speaking to
Cain of Abel. The truth is that the curse, as it is termed, which was
pronounced by Jehovah upon woman, is a simple prophecy. The Hebrew,
like the French language, uses the same word to express shall and will.
Our translators having been accustomed to exercise lordship over their
wives, and seeing only through the medium of a perverted judgment, very
naturally, though I think not very learnedly or very kindly, translated
it _shall_ instead of _will_, and thus converted a prediction to Eve
into a command to Adam; for observe, it is addressed to the woman and
not to the man. The consequence of the fall was an immediate struggle
for dominion, and Jehovah foretold which would gain the ascendency; but
as he created them in his image, as that image manifestly was not lost
by the fall, because it is urged in Gen. 9:6, as an argument why the
life of man should not be taken by his fellow man, there is no reason
to suppose that sin produced any distinction between them as moral,
intellectual and responsible beings. Man might just as well have
endeavored by hard labor to fulfil the prophecy, thorns and thistles
will the earth bring forth to thee, as to pretend to accomplish the
other, ‘he will rule over thee,’ by asserting dominion over his wife.

  ‘Authority usurped from God, not given.
  He gave him only over beast, flesh, fowl,
  Dominion absolute: that right he holds
  By God’s donation: but man o’er woman
  He made not Lord, such title to himself
  Reserving, human left from human free.’

Here then I plant myself. God created us equal;--he created us free
agents;--he is our Lawgiver, our King and our Judge, and to him alone
is woman bound to be in subjection, and to him alone is she accountable
for the use of those talents with which her Heavenly Father has
entrusted her. One is her Master even Christ.

                     Thine for the oppressed in the bonds of womanhood,

                                                       SARAH M. GRIMKE.



                              LETTER II.

                      WOMAN SUBJECT ONLY TO GOD.


                                       _Newburyport, 7th mo. 17, 1837._

MY DEAR SISTER,--In my last, I traced the creation and the fall of
man and woman from that state of purity and happiness which their
beneficent Creator designed them to enjoy. As they were one in
transgression, their chastisement was the same. ‘So God drove out
_the man_, and he placed at the East of the garden of Eden a cherubim
and a flaming sword, which turned every way to keep the way of the
tree of life.’ We now behold them expelled from Paradise, fallen from
their original loveliness, but still bearing on their foreheads the
image and superscription of Jehovah; still invested with high moral
responsibilities, intellectual powers, and immortal souls. They had
incurred the penalty of sin, they were shorn of their innocence,
but they stood on the same platform side by side, acknowledging _no
superior_ but their God. Notwithstanding what has been urged, woman
I am aware stands charged to the present day with having brought sin
into the world. I shall not repel the charge by any counter assertions,
although, as was before hinted, Adam’s ready acquiescence with his
wife’s proposal, does not savor much of that superiority _in strength
of mind_, which is arrogated by man. Even admitting that Eve was the
greater sinner, it seems to me man might be satisfied with the dominion
he has claimed and exercised for nearly six thousand years, and that
more true nobility would be manifested by endeavoring to raise the
fallen and invigorate the weak, than by keeping woman in subjection.
But I ask no favors for my sex. I surrender not our claim to equality.
All I ask of our brethren is, that they will take their feet from off
our necks, and permit us to stand upright on that ground which God
designed us to occupy. If he has not given us the rights which have, as
I conceive, been wrested from us, we shall soon give evidence of our
inferiority, and shrink back into that obscurity, which the high souled
magnanimity of man has assigned us as our appropriate sphere.

As I am unable to learn from sacred writ when woman was deprived by
God of her equality with man, I shall touch upon a few points in the
Scriptures, which demonstrate that no supremacy was granted to man.
When God had destroyed the world, except Noah and his family, by the
deluge, he renewed the grant formerly made to man, and again gave him
dominion over every beast of the earth, every fowl of the air, over all
that moveth upon the earth, and over all the fishes of the sea; into
his hands they were delivered. But was woman, bearing the image of her
God, placed under the dominion of her fellow man? Never! Jehovah could
not surrender his authority to govern his own immortal creatures into
the hands of a being, whom he knew, and whom his whole history proved,
to be unworthy of a trust so sacred and important. God could not do it,
because it is a direct contravention of his law, ‘Thou shalt worship
the Lord thy God, and _him only_ shalt thou serve.’ If Jehovah had
appointed man as the guardian, or teacher of woman, he would certainly
have given some intimation of this surrender of his own prerogative.
But so far from it, we find the commands of God invariably the same to
man and woman; and not the slightest intimation is given in a single
passage of the Bible, that God designed to point woman to man as her
instructor. The tenor of his language always is, ‘Look unto ME, and be
ye saved, all the ends of the earth, for I am God, and there is none
else.’

The lust of dominion was probably the first effect of the fall; and as
there was no other intelligent being over whom to exercise it, woman
was the first victim of this unhallowed passion. We afterwards see
it exhibited by Cain in the murder of his brother, by Nimrod in his
becoming a mighty hunter of men, and setting up a kingdom over which to
reign. Here we see the origin of that Upas of slavery, which sprang up
immediately after the fall, and has spread its pestilential branches
over the whole face of the known world. All history attests that man
has subjected woman to his will, used her as a means to promote his
selfish gratification, to minister to his sensual pleasures, to be
instrumental in promoting his comfort; but never has he desired to
elevate her to that rank she was created to fill. He has done all he
could to debase and enslave her mind; and now he looks triumphantly on
the ruin he has wrought, and says, the being he has thus deeply injured
is his inferior.

Woman has been placed by John Quincy Adams, side by side with the
slave, whilst he was contending for the right side of petition. I
thank him for ranking us with the oppressed; for I shall not find it
difficult to show, that in all ages and countries, not even excepting
enlightened republican America, woman has more or less been made a
_means_ to promote the welfare of man, without due regard to her own
happiness, and the glory of God as the end of her creation.

During the _patriarchal_ ages, we find men and women engaged in the
same employments. Abraham and Sarah both assisted in preparing the
food which was to be set before the three men, who visited them in the
plains of Mamre; but although their occupations were similar, Sarah
was not permitted to enjoy the society of the holy visitant; and as
we learn from Peter, that she ‘obeyed Abraham, calling him Lord,’ we
may presume he exercised dominion over her. We shall pass on now to
Rebecca. In her history, we find another striking illustration of the
low estimation in which woman was held. Eleazur is sent to seek a wife
for Isaac. He finds Rebecca going down to the well to fill her pitcher.
He accosts her; and she replies with all humility, ‘Drink, my lord.’
How does he endeavor to gain her favor and confidence? Does he approach
her as a dignified creature, whom he was about to invite to fill an
important station in his master’s family, as the wife of his only son?
No. He offered incense to her vanity, and ‘he took a golden ear-ring of
half a shekel weight, and two bracelets for her hands of ten shekels
weight of gold,’ and gave them to Rebecca.

The cupidity of man soon led him to regard woman as property, and
hence we find them sold to those, who wished to marry them, as far as
appears, without any regard to those sacred rights which belong to
woman, as well as to man in the choice of a companion. That women were
a profitable kind of property, we may gather from the description of
a virtuous woman in the last chapter of Proverbs. To work willingly
with her hands, to open her hands to the poor, to clothe herself with
silk and purple, to look well to her household, to make fine linen
and sell it, to deliver girdles to the merchant, and not to eat the
bread of idleness, seems to have constituted in the view of Solomon,
the perfection of a woman’s character and achievements. ‘The spirit of
that age was not favorable to intellectual improvement; but as there
were wise men who formed exceptions to the general ignorance, and were
destined to guide the world into more advanced states, so there was a
corresponding proportion of wise women; and among the Jews, as well as
other nations, we find a strong tendency to believe that women were in
more immediate connection with heaven than men.’--L. M. Child’s Con.
of Woman. If there be any truth in this tradition, I am at a loss to
imagine in what the superiority of man consists.

                                       Thine in the bonds of womanhood,

                                                       SARAH M. GRIMKE.



                              LETTER III.

   THE PASTORAL LETTER OF THE GENERAL ASSOCIATION OF CONGREGATIONAL
                      MINISTERS OF MASSACHUSETTS.


                                             _Haverhill, 7th Mo. 1837._

DEAR FRIEND,--When I last addressed thee, I had not seen the Pastoral
Letter of the General Association. It has since fallen into my hands,
and I must digress from my intention of exhibiting the condition of
women in different parts of the world, in order to make some remarks
on this extraordinary document. I am persuaded that when the minds of
men and women become emancipated from the thraldom of superstition and
‘traditions of men,’ the sentiments contained in the Pastoral Letter
will be recurred to with as much astonishment as the opinions of
Cotton Mather and other distinguished men of his day, on the subject
of witchcraft; nor will it be deemed less wonderful, that a body of
divines should gravely assemble and endeavor to prove that woman has
no right to ‘open her mouth for the dumb,’ than it now is that judges
should have sat on the trials of witches, and solemnly condemned
nineteen persons and one dog to death for witchcraft.

But to the letter. It says, ‘We invite your attention to the dangers
which at present seem to threaten the FEMALE CHARACTER with wide-spread
and permanent injury.’ I rejoice that they have called the attention
of my sex to this subject, because I believe if woman investigates it,
she will soon discover that danger is impending, though from a totally
different source from that which the Association apprehends,--danger
from those who, having long held the reins of _usurped_ authority, are
unwilling to permit us to fill that sphere which God created us to
move in, and who have entered into league to crush the immortal mind
of woman. I rejoice, because I am persuaded that the rights of woman,
like the rights of slaves, need only be examined to be understood and
asserted, even by some of those, who are now endeavoring to smother the
irrepressible desire for mental and spiritual freedom which glows in
the breast of many, who hardly dare to speak their sentiments.

‘The appropriate duties and influence of women are clearly stated
in the New Testament. Those duties are unobtrusive and private, but
the sources of _mighty power_. When the mild, _dependent_, softening
influence of woman upon the sternness of man’s opinions is fully
exercised, society feels the effects of it in a thousand ways.’ No one
can desire more earnestly than I do, that woman may move exactly in the
sphere which her Creator has assigned her; and I believe her having
been displaced from that sphere has introduced confusion into the
world. It is, therefore, of vast importance to herself and to all the
rational creation, that she should ascertain what are her duties and
her privileges as a responsible and immortal being. The New Testament
has been referred to, and I am willing to abide by its decisions, but
must enter my protest against the false translation of some passages by
the MEN who did that work, and against the perverted interpretation by
the MEN who undertook to write commentaries thereon. I am inclined to
think, when we are admitted to the honor of studying Greek and Hebrew,
we shall produce some various readings of the Bible a little different
from those we now have.

The Lord Jesus defines the duties of his followers in his Sermon on the
Mount. He lays down grand principles by which they should be governed,
without any reference to sex or condition:--‘Ye are the light of the
world. A city that is set on a hill cannot be hid. Neither do men light
a candle and put it under a bushel, but on a candlestick, and it giveth
light unto all that are in the house. Let your light so shine before
men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which
is in Heaven.’ I follow him through all his precepts, and find him
giving the same directions to women as to men, never even referring to
the distinction now so strenuously insisted upon between masculine and
feminine virtues: this is one of the anti-christian ‘traditions of men’
which are taught instead of the ‘commandments of God.’ Men and women
were CREATED EQUAL; they are both moral and accountable beings, and
whatever is _right_ for man to do, is _right_ for woman.

But the influence of woman, says the Association, is to be private
and unobtrusive; her light is not to shine before man like that of
her brethren; but she is passively to let the lords of the creation,
as they call themselves, put the bushel over it, lest peradventure it
might appear that the world has been benefitted by the rays of _her_
candle. So that her quenched light, according to their judgment, will
be of more use than if it were set on the candlestick. ‘Her influence
is the source of mighty power.’ This has ever been the flattering
language of man since he laid aside the whip as a means to keep woman
in subjection. He spares her body; but the war he has waged against her
mind, her heart, and her soul, has been no less destructive to her as
a moral being. How monstrous, how anti-christian, is the doctrine that
woman is to be dependent on man! Where, in all the sacred Scriptures,
is this taught? Alas! she has too well learned the lesson which MAN has
labored to teach her. She has surrendered her dearest RIGHTS, and been
satisfied with the privileges which man has assumed to grant her; she
has been amused with the show of power, whilst man has absorbed all the
reality into himself. He has adorned the creature whom God gave him as
a companion, with baubles and gewgaws, turned her attention to personal
attractions, offered incense to her vanity, and made her the instrument
of his selfish gratification, a play-thing to please his eye and amuse
his hours of leisure. ‘Rule by obedience and by submission sway,’ or
in other words, study to be a hypocrite, pretend to submit, but gain
your point, has been the code of household morality which woman has
been taught. The poet has sung, in sickly strains, the loveliness of
woman’s dependence upon man, and now we find it re-echoed by those who
profess to teach the religion of the Bible. God says, ‘Cease ye from
man whose breath is in his nostrils, for wherein is he to be accounted
of?’ Man says, depend upon me. God says, ‘HE will teach us of his
ways.’ Man says, believe it not, I am to be your teacher. This doctrine
of dependence upon man is utterly at variance with the doctrine of the
Bible. In that book I find nothing like the softness of woman, nor the
sternness of man: both are equally commanded to bring forth the fruits
of the Spirit, love, meekness, gentleness, &c.

But we are told, ‘the power of woman is in her dependence, flowing
from a consciousness of that weakness which God has given her for her
protection.’ If physical weakness is alluded to, I cheerfully concede
the superiority; if brute force is what my brethren are claiming, I am
willing to let them have all the honor they desire; but if they mean
to intimate, that mental or moral weakness belongs to woman, more than
to man, I utterly disclaim the charge. Our powers of mind have been
crushed, as far as man could do it, our sense of morality has been
impaired by his interpretation of our duties; but no where does God
say that he made any distinction between us, as moral and intelligent
beings.

‘We appreciate,’ say the Association, ‘the _unostentatious_ prayers
and efforts of woman in advancing the cause of religion at home and
abroad, in leading religious inquirers TO THE PASTOR for instruction.’
Several points here demand attention. If public prayers and public
efforts are necessarily ostentatious, then ‘Anna the prophetess, (or
preacher,) who departed not from the temple, but served God with
fastings and prayers night and day,’ ‘and spake of Christ to all them
that looked for redemption in Israel,’ was ostentatious in her efforts.
Then, the apostle Paul encourages women to be ostentatious in their
efforts to spread the gospel, when he gives them directions how they
should appear, when engaged in praying, or preaching in the public
assemblies. Then, the whole association of Congregational ministers are
ostentatious, in the efforts they are making in preaching and praying
to convert souls.

But woman may be permitted to lead religious inquirers to the PASTORS
for instruction. Now this is assuming that all pastors are better
qualified to give instruction than woman. This I utterly deny. I have
suffered too keenly from the teaching of man, to lead any one to him
for instruction. The Lord Jesus says,--‘Come unto me and learn of me.’
He points his followers to no man; and when woman is made the favored
instrument of rousing a sinner to his lost and helpless condition,
she has no right to substitute any teacher for Christ; all she has to
do is, to turn the contrite inquirer to the ‘Lamb of God which taketh
away the sins of the world.’ More souls have probably been lost by
going down to Egypt for help, and by trusting in man in the early
stages of religious experience, than by any other error. Instead of
the petition being offered to God,--‘Lead me in thy truth, and TEACH
me, for thou art the God of my salvation,’--instead of relying on the
precious promises--‘What man is he that feareth the Lord? him shall
HE TEACH in the way that he shall choose’--‘I will instruct thee and
TEACH thee in the way which thou shalt go--I will guide thee with mine
eye’--the young convert is directed to go to man, as if he were in
the place of God, and his instructions essential to an advancement in
the path of righteousness. That woman can have but a poor conception
of the privilege of being taught of God, what he alone can teach, who
would turn the ‘religious inquirer aside’ from the fountain of living
waters, where he might slake his thirst for spiritual instruction, to
those broken cisterns which can hold no water, and therefore cannot
satisfy the panting spirit. The business of men and women, who are
ORDAINED OF GOD to preach the unsearchable riches of Christ to a lost
and perishing world, is to lead souls to Christ, and not to Pastors for
instruction.

The General Association say, that ‘when woman assumes the place and
tone of man as a public reformer, our care and protection of her seem
unnecessary; we put ourselves in self-defence against her, and her
character becomes unnatural.’ Here again the unscriptural notion is
held up, that there is a distinction between the duties of men and
women as moral beings; that what is virtue in man, is vice in woman;
and women who dare to obey the command of Jehovah, ‘Cry aloud, spare
not, lift up thy voice like a trumpet, and show my people their
transgression,’ are threatened with having the protection of the
brethren withdrawn. If this is all they do, we shall not even know
the time when our chastisement is inflicted; our trust is in the Lord
Jehovah, and in him is ever-lasting strength. The motto of woman, when
she is engaged in the great work of public reformation should be,--‘The
Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? The Lord is the
strength of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?’ She must feel, if she
feels rightly, that she is fulfilling one of the important duties
laid upon her as an accountable being, and that her character, instead
of being ‘unnatural,’ is in exact accordance with the will of Him to
whom, and to no other, she is responsible for the talents and the gifts
confided to her. As to the pretty simile, introduced into the ‘Pastoral
Letter,’ ‘If the vine whose strength and beauty is to lean upon the
trellis work, and half conceal its clusters, thinks to assume the
independence and the overshadowing nature of the elm,’ &c. I shall only
remark that it might well suit the poet’s fancy, who sings of sparkling
eyes and coral lips, and knights in armor clad; but it seems to me
utterly inconsistent with the dignity of a Christian body, to endeavor
to draw such an anti-scriptural distinction between men and women. Ah!
how many of my sex feel in the dominion, thus unrighteously exercised
over them, under the gentle appellation of _protection_, that what they
have leaned upon has proved a broken reed at best, and oft a spear.

                                       Thine in the bonds of womanhood,

                                                       SARAH M. GRIMKE.



                              LETTER IV.

                   SOCIAL INTERCOURSE OF THE SEXES.


                                         _Andover, 7th Mo. 27th, 1837._

MY DEAR FRIEND,--Before I proceed with the account of that oppression
which woman has suffered in every age and country from her _protector_,
man, permit me to offer for your consideration, some views relative
to the social intercourse of the sexes. Nearly the whole of this
intercourse is, in my apprehension, derogatory to man and woman, as
moral and intellectual beings. We approach each other, and mingle
with each other, under the constant pressure of a feeling that we are
of different sexes; and, instead of regarding each other only in the
light of immortal creatures, the mind is fettered by the idea which is
early and industriously infused into it, that we must never forget the
distinction between male and female. Hence our intercourse, instead
of being elevated and refined, is generally calculated to excite and
keep alive the lowest propensities of our nature. Nothing, I believe,
has tended more to destroy the true dignity of woman, than the fact
that she is approached by man in the character of a female. The idea
that she is sought as an intelligent and heaven-born creature, whose
society will cheer, refine and elevate her companion, and that she
will receive the same blessings she confers, is rarely held up to her
view. On the contrary, man almost always addresses himself to the
weakness of woman. By flattery, by an appeal to her passions, he seeks
access to her heart; and when he has gained her affections, he uses
her as the instrument of his pleasure--the minister of his temporal
comfort. He furnishes himself with a housekeeper, whose chief business
is in the kitchen, or the nursery. And whilst he goes abroad and
enjoys the means of improvement afforded by collision of intellect
with cultivated minds, his wife is condemned to draw nearly all her
instruction from books, if she has time to peruse them; and if not,
from her meditations, whilst engaged in those domestic duties, which
are necessary for the comfort of her lord and master.

Surely no one who contemplates, with the eye of a Christian
philosopher, the design of God in the creation of woman, can believe
that she is now fulfilling that design. The literal translation of the
word ‘help-meet’ is a helper like unto himself; it is so rendered in
the Septuagint, and manifestly signifies a companion. Now I believe
it will be impossible for woman to fill the station assigned her by
God, until her brethren mingle with her as an equal, as a moral being;
and lose, in the dignity of her immortal nature, and in the fact of
her bearing like himself the image and superscription of her God, the
idea of her being a female. The apostle beautifully remarks, ‘As many
of you as have been baptized into Christ, have put on Christ. There
is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither bond nor free, there is
neither _male_ nor _female_; for ye are all one in Christ Jesus.’ Until
our intercourse is purified by the forgetfulness of sex,--until we rise
above the present low and sordid views which entwine themselves around
our social and domestic interchange of sentiment and feelings, we never
can derive that benefit from each other’s society which it is the
design of our Creator that we should. Man has inflicted an unspeakable
injury upon woman, by holding up to her view her animal nature, and
placing in the back ground her moral and intellectual being. Woman has
inflicted an injury upon herself by submitting to be thus regarded; and
she is now called upon to rise from the station where _man_, not God,
has placed her, and claim those sacred and inalienable rights, as a
moral and responsible being, with which her Creator has invested her.

What but these views, so derogatory to the character of woman, could
have called forth the remark contained in the Pastoral Letter?
‘We especially deplore the intimate acquaintance and promiscuous
conversation of _females_ with regard to things “which ought not to
be named,” by which that modesty and delicacy, which is the charm of
domestic life, and which constitutes the true influence of woman,
is consumed.’ How wonderful that the conceptions of man relative to
woman are so low, that he cannot perceive that she may converse on any
subject connected with the improvement of her species, without swerving
in the least from that modesty which is one of her greatest virtues!
Is it designed to insinuate that woman should possess a greater degree
of modesty than man? This idea I utterly reprobate. Or is it supposed
that woman cannot go into scenes of misery, the necessary result of
those very things, which the Pastoral Letter says ought not to be
named, for the purpose of moral reform, without becoming contaminated
by those with whom she thus mingles?

This is a false position; and I presume has grown out of the
never-forgotten distinction of male and female. The woman who goes
forth, clad in the panoply of God, to stem the tide of iniquity and
misery, which she beholds rolling through our land, goes not forth to
her labor of love as a female. She goes as the dignified messenger of
Jehovah, and all she does and says must be done and said irrespective
of sex. She is in duty bound to communicate with all, who are able and
willing to aid her in saving her fellow creatures, both men and women,
from that destruction which awaits them.

So far from woman losing any thing of the purity of her mind, by
visiting the wretched victims of vice in their miserable abodes, by
talking with them, or of them, she becomes more and more elevated and
refined in her feelings and views. While laboring to cleanse the minds
of others from the malaria of moral pollution, her own heart becomes
purified, and her soul rises to nearer communion with her God. Such a
woman is infinitely better qualified to fulfil the duties of a wife and
a mother, than the woman whose _false delicacy_ leads her to shun her
fallen sister and brother, and shrink from _naming those sins_ which
she knows exist, but which she is too fastidious to labor by deed and
by word to exterminate. Such a woman feels when she enters upon the
marriage relation, that God designed that relation not to debase her
to a level with the animal creation, but to increase the happiness and
dignity of his creatures. Such a woman comes to the important task of
training her children in the nurture and admonition of the Lord, with a
soul filled with the greatness of the beings committed to her charge.
She sees in her children, creatures bearing the image of God; and she
approaches them with reverence, and treats them at all times as moral
and accountable beings. Her own mind being purified and elevated, she
instils into her children that genuine religion which induces them to
keep the commandments of God. Instead of ministering with ceaseless
care to their sensual appetites, she teaches them to be temperate in
all things. She can converse with her children on any subject relating
to their duty to God, can point their attention to those vices which
degrade and brutify human nature, without in the least defiling her
own mind or theirs. She views herself, and teaches her children to
regard themselves as moral beings; and in all their intercourse with
their fellow men, to lose the animal nature of man and woman, in the
recognition of that immortal mind wherewith Jehovah has blessed and
                            enriched them.

                                       Thine in the bonds of womanhood,
                                                       SARAH M. GRIMKE.



                               LETTER V.

                     CONDITION IN ASIA AND AFRICA.


                                           _Groton, 8th Mo. 4th, 1837._

MY DEAR SISTER,--I design to devote this letter to a brief examination
of the condition of women in Asia and Africa. I believe it will be
found that men, in the exercise of their usurped dominion over woman,
have almost invariably done one of two things. They have either made
slaves of the creatures whom God designed to be their companions and
their coadjutors in every moral and intellectual improvement, or they
have dressed them like dolls, and used them as toys to amuse their
hours of recreation.

I shall commence by stating the degrading practice of SELLING WOMEN,
which we find prevalent in almost all the Eastern nations.

Among the Jews,--

 ‘Whoever wished for a wife must pay the parents for her, or perform
 a stipulated period of service; sometimes the parties were solemnly
 betrothed in childhood, and the price of the bride stipulated.’

In Babylon, they had a yearly custom of a peculiar kind.

 ‘In every district, three men, respectable for their virtue, were
 chosen to conduct all the marriageable girls to the public assembly.
 Here they were put up at auction by the public crier, while the
 magistrate presided over the sales. The most beautiful were sold
 first, and the rich contended eagerly for a choice. The most ugly,
 or deformed girl was sold next in succession to the handsomest, and
 assigned to any person who would take her with the least sum of money.
 The price given for the beautiful was divided into dowries for the
 homely.’

Two things may here be noticed; first, the value set upon personal
charms, just as a handsome horse commands a high price; and second, the
utter disregard which is manifested towards the feelings of woman.

 ‘In no part of the world does the condition of women appear more
 dreary than in Hindostan. The arbitrary power of a father disposes
 of them in childhood. When they are married, their husbands have
 despotic control over them; if unable to support them, they can lend
 or sell them to a neighbor, and in the Hindoo rage for gambling, wives
 and children are frequently staked and lost. If they survive their
 husbands, they must pay implicit obedience to the oldest son; if they
 have no sons, the nearest male relation holds them in subjection; and
 if there happen to be no kinsmen, they must be dependent on the chief
 of the tribe.’

Even the English, who are numerous in Hindostan, have traded in women.

 ‘India has been a great marriage market, on account of the emigration
 of young enterprising Englishmen, without a corresponding number
 of women. Some persons actually imported women to the British
 settlements, in order to sell them to rich Europeans, or nabobs, who
 would give a good price for them. How the importers acquired a right
 thus to dispose of them is not mentioned; it is probable that the
 women themselves, from extreme poverty, or some other cause, consented
 to become articles of speculation, upon consideration of receiving a
 certain remuneration. In September, 1818, the following advertisement
 appeared in the Calcutta Advertiser:

 FEMALES RAFFLED FOR.

 Be it known, that six fair pretty young ladies, with two sweet
 engaging children, lately imported from Europe, having the roses of
 health blooming on their cheeks, and joy sparkling in their eyes,
 possessing amiable tempers and highly accomplished, whom the most
 indifferent cannot behold without rapture, are to be raffled for next
 door to the British gallery.’

The enemy of all good could not have devised a better means of debasing
an immortal creature, than by turning her into a saleable commodity;
and hence we find that wherever this custom prevails, woman is regarded
as a mere machine to answer the purposes of domestic combat or sensual
indulgence, or to gratify the taste of her oppressor by a display of
personal attractions.

  ‘Weighed in the balance with a tyrant’s gold,
  Though nature cast her in a heavenly mould.’

I shall now take a brief survey of the EMPLOYMENTS of women in Asia
and Africa. In doing this, I have two objects in view; first to show,
that women are capable of acquiring as great physical power as men,
and secondly to show, that they have been more or less the victims of
oppression and contempt.

 ‘The occupations of the ancient Jewish women were laborious. They
 spent their time in spinning and weaving cloth for garments, and for
 the covering of the tents, in cooking the food, tending the flocks,
 grinding the corn, and drawing water from the wells.’

Of Trojan women we know little, but we find that--

 ‘Andromache, though a princess and well beloved by her husband, fed
 and took care of the horses of Hector.’

So in Persia, women of the middling class see that proper care is taken
of the horses. They likewise do all the laborious part of the house
work.

 ‘The Hindoo women are engaged in every variety of occupation,
 according to the caste of their husbands. They cultivate the land,
 make baskets and mats, bring water in jars, carry manure and various
 other articles to market in baskets on their heads, cook food, tend
 children, weave cloth, reel thread and wind cocoons.’

 ‘The Thibetian women of the laboring classes are inured to a great
 deal of toil. They plant, weed, reap, and thresh grain, and are
 exposed to the roughest weather, while their indolent husbands are
 perhaps living at their ease.’

 ‘Females of the lower classes among the Chinese endure as much labor
 and fatigue as the men. A wife sometimes drags the plough in rice
 fields with an infant tied upon her back, while her husband performs
 the less arduous task of holding the plough.’

 ‘The Tartar women in general perform a greater share of labor than the
 men; for it is a prevalent opinion that they were sent into the world
 for no other purpose, but to be useful and convenient SLAVES to the
 stronger sex.’ ‘Among some of the Tartar tribes of the present day,
 females manage a horse, hurl a javelin, hunt wild animals, and fight
 an enemy as well as the men.’

 ‘In the island of Sumatra, the women do all the work, while their
 husbands lounge in idleness, playing on the flute, with wreaths of
 globe amaranth on their heads, or racing with each other, without
 saddle or stirrup, or hunting deer, or gambling away their wives,
 their children, or themselves. The Battas consider their wives and
 children as slaves, and sell them whenever they choose.’

 ‘The Moors are indolent to excess. They lie whole days upon their
 mats, sleeping and smoking, while the women and slaves perform all the
 labor. Owing to their uncleanly habits, they are much infested with
 vermin; and as they consider it beneath their dignity to remove this
 annoyance, the task is imposed on the women. They are very impatient
 and tyrannical, and for the slightest offence beat their wives most
 cruelly.’

In looking over the condition of woman as delineated in this letter,
how amply do we find the prophecy of Jehovah to Eve fulfilled, ‘Thy
husband will rule over thee.’ And yet we perceive that where the
physical strength of woman is called into exercise, there is no
inferiority even in this respect; she performs the labor, while man
enjoys what are termed the pleasures of life.

I have thought it necessary to adduce various proofs of my assertion,
that men have always in some way regarded women as mere instruments of
selfish gratification; and hope this sorrowful detail of the wrongs of
woman will not be tedious to thee.

                                       Thine in the bonds of womanhood,

                                                       SARAH M. GRIMKE.



                              LETTER VI.

                       WOMEN IN ASIA AND AFRICA.


                                          _Groton, 8th Mo. 15th, 1837._

DEAR FRIEND,--In pursuing the history of woman in different ages and
countries, it will be necessary to exhibit her in all the various
situations in which she has been placed.

We find her sometimes _filling the throne_, and exercising the
functions of royalty. The name of Semiramis is familiar to every
reader of ancient history. She succeeded Ninus in the government of
the Assyrian empire; and to render her name immortal, built the city
of Babylon. Two millions of men were constantly employed upon it.
Certain dykes built by order of this queen, to defend the city from
inundations, are spoken of as admirable.

Nicotris, wife of Nabonadius, the Evil-Merodach of Scripture, was a
woman of great endowments. While her husband indulged in a life of ease
and pleasure, she managed the affairs of state with wisdom and prudence.

 ‘Zenobia queen of Palmyra and the East, is the most remarkable
 among Asiatic women. Her genius struggled with and overcame all the
 obstacles presented by oriental laws and customs. She knew the Latin,
 Greek, Syriac, and Egyptian languages; and had drawn up for her own
 use an abridgement of oriental history. She was the companion and
 friend of her husband, and accompanied him on his hunting excursions
 with eagerness and courage equal to his own. She despised the
 effeminacy of a covered carriage, and often appeared on horseback in
 military costume. Sometimes she marched several miles on foot, at the
 head of the troops. Having revenged the murder of her husband, she
 ascended the throne, and for five years governed Palmyra, Syria, and
 the East, with wonderful steadiness and wisdom.’

 ‘Previous to the introduction of Mohammedism into Java, women often
 held the highest offices of government; and when the chief of a
 district dies, it is even now not uncommon for the widow to retain the
 authority that belonged to her deceased husband.’

Other instances might be adduced to prove that there is no natural
inferiority in woman. Not that I approve of woman’s holding the reins
of government over man. I maintain that they are equal, and that God
never invested fallen man with unlimited power over his fellow man;
and I rejoice that circumstances have prevented woman from being more
deeply involved in the guilt which appears to be inseparable from
political affairs. The few instances which I have mentioned prove
that intellect is not sexed; and doubtless if woman had not almost
universally been depressed and degraded, the page of history would have
exhibited as many eminent statesmen and politicians among women as
men. We are much in the situation of the slave. Man has asserted and
assumed authority over us. He has, by virtue of his power, deprived
us of the advantages of improvement which he has lavishly bestowed
upon himself, and then, after having done all he can to take from
us the means of proving our equality, and our capability of mental
cultivation, he throws upon us the burden of proof that God created man
and woman equal, and endowed them, without any reference to sex, with
intelligence and responsibilities, as rational and accountable beings.
Hence in Hindostan, even women of the higher classes are forbidden to
read or write; because the Hindoos think it would inevitably spoil them
for domestic life, and assuredly bring some great misfortune upon them.
May we not trace to the same feeling, the disadvantages under which
women labor even in this country, for want of an education, which would
call into exercise the powers of her mind, and fortify her soul with
those great moral principles by which she would be qualified to fill
_every_ department in _social_, _domestic_ and _religious_ life with
dignity?

In Hindostan, the evidence of women is not received in a court of
justice.

In Burmah, their testimony is not deemed equal to that of a man, and
they are not allowed to ascend the steps of a court of justice, but are
obliged to give their testimony outside of the building.

In Siberia, women are not allowed to step across the foot-prints of
men, or reindeer; they are not allowed to eat with men, or to partake
of particular dainties. Among many tribes, they seem to be regarded as
impure, unholy beings.

 ‘The Mohammedan law forbids pigs, dogs, women and other impure animals
 to enter a mosque; and the hour of prayers must not be proclaimed by a
 female, a madman, a drunkard, or a decrepit person.’

Here I am reminded of the resemblance between the situation of women in
heathen and Mohammedan countries, and our brethren and sisters of color
in this Christian land, where they are despised and cast out as though
they were unclean. And on precisely the same ground, because they are
said to be inferior.

The treatment of women as wives is almost uniformly the same in all
heathen countries.

The ancient Lydians are the only exception that I have met with, and
the origin of their peculiar customs is so much obscured by fable, that
it is difficult to ascertain the truth. Probably they arose from some
great benefit conferred on the state by women.

Among the Druses who reside in the mountains of the Anti Libanus,
a wife is often divorced on the slightest pretext. If she ask her
husband’s permission to go out, and he says,--‘Go,’ without adding ‘but
come back again,’ she is divorced.

In Siberia, it is considered a wife’s duty to obey the most capricious
and unreasonable demands of her husband, without one word of
expostulation or inquiry. If her master be dissatisfied with the most
trifling particular in her conduct, he tears the cap or veil from her
head, and this constitutes a divorce.

A Persian woman, under the dominion of the kindest master, is treated
much in the same manner as a favorite animal. To vary her personal
graces for his pleasure, is the sole end and aim of her existence.
As moral or intellectual beings, it would be better for them to be
among the dead than the living. The mother instructs her daughter in
all the voluptuous coquetry, by which she herself acquired precarious
ascendency over her absolute master; but all that is truly estimable in
female character is utterly neglected.

Hence we find women extravagantly fond of adorning their persons.
Regarded as instruments of pleasure, they have been degraded into mere
animals, and have found their own gratification principally in the
indulgence of personal vanity, because their external charms procured
for them, at least a temporary ascendency over those, who held in their
hands the reins of government. A few instances must suffice, or I shall
exceed the limits I have prescribed to myself in this letter.

During the magnificent prosperity of Israel, marriages were conducted
with great pomp; and with the progress of luxury and refinement, women
became expensive, rather than profitable in a pecuniary point of view.
Hence probably arose the custom of wealthy parents giving a handsome
dowry with their daughters. On the day of the nuptials, the bride was
conducted by her female relations to the bath, where she was anointed
with the choicest perfumes, her hair perfumed and braided, her eyebrows
deepened with black powder, and the tips of her fingers tinged with
rose color. She was then arrayed in a marriage robe of brilliant color;
the girdle and bracelets were more or less costly.

Notwithstanding the Chinese women have no opportunity to rival each
other in the conquest of hearts, they are nevertheless very fond of
ornaments. Bunches of silver or gilt flowers are always interspersed
among their ringlets, and sometimes they wear the Chinese phœnix made
of silver gilt. It moves with the slightest motion of the wearer,
and the spreading tail forms a glittering aigrette on the middle of
the head, and the wings wave over the front. Yet a Chinese ballad
says,--The pearls and precious stones, the silk and gold with which
a coquette so studiously bedecks herself, are a transparent varnish
which makes all her defects the more apparent.

The Moorish women have generally a great passion for ornament. They
decorate their persons with heavy gold ear-rings, necklaces of amber,
coral and gold; gold bracelets; gold chains and silver bells for the
ankles; rings on the fingers, &c. &c. The poorer class wear glass beads
around the head, and curl the hair in large ringlets. Men are proud of
having their wives handsomely dressed.

The Moors are not peculiar in this fancy. Christian men still admire
women who adorn their persons to gratify the lust of the eye and the
pride of life. Women, says a Brahminical expositor, are characterized
by an inordinate love of jewels, fine clothes, &c. &c. I cannot deny
this charge, but it is only one among many instances, wherein men
have reproached us with those very faults and vices which their own
treatment has engendered. Is it any matter of surprise that women,
when unnaturally deprived of the means of cultivating their minds, of
objects which would elevate and refine their passions and affections,
should seek gratification in the toys and the trifles which now too
generally engage their attention?

I cannot close this, without acknowledging the assistance and
information I have derived, and shall continue to derive on this part
of my subject, from a valuable work entitled ‘Condition of Women, by
Lydia M. Child.’ It is worth the perusal of every one who is interested
in the subject.

                                       Thine in the bonds of womanhood,

                                                       SARAH M. GRIMKE.



                              LETTER VII.

            CONDITION IN SOME PARTS OF EUROPE AND AMERICA.


                                       _Brookline, 8th Mo., 22d, 1837._

DEAR SISTER,--I now come to the consideration of the condition of woman
in Europe.--In this portion of the world, she does not appear to have
been as uniformly or as deeply debased, as in Eastern countries; yet we
shall find little in her history which can yield us satisfaction, when
we regard the high station she was designed to occupy as a _moral and
intellectual_ being.

In Greece, if we may judge from what Eustathius says, ‘women should
keep within doors, and there talk,’--we may conclude, that in general
their occupations were chiefly domestic. Thucydides also declares, that
‘she was the best woman, of whom the least was said, either of good
or of harm.’ The heathen philosophers doubtless wished to keep woman
in her ‘_appropriate sphere_;’ and we find our clerical brethren of
the present day re-echoing these pagan sentiments, and endeavoring to
drive woman from the field of moral labor and intellectual culture,
to occupy her talents in the pursuit of those employments which will
enable her to regale the palate of her lord with the delicacies of the
table, and in every possible way minister to his animal comfort and
gratification. In my humble opinion, woman has long enough subserved
the interests of man; and in the spirit of self-sacrifice, submitted
almost without remonstrance to his oppression; and now that her
attention is solicited to the subject of her rights, her privileges
and her duties, I would entreat her to double her diligence in the
performance of all her obligations as a _wife_, a _mother_, a _sister_,
and a _daughter_. Let us remember that our claim to stand on perfect
equality with our brethren, can only be substantiated by a scrupulous
attention to our domestic duties, as well as by aiding in the great
work of moral reformation--a work which is now calling for the energies
and consecrated powers of every man and woman who desires to see the
Redeemer’s kingdom established on earth. That man must indeed be narrow
minded, and can have but a poor conception of the power of moral truth
on the female heart, who supposes that a correct view of her own rights
can make woman _less solicitous to fill up every department of duty_.
If it should have this effect, it must be because she has not taken a
comprehensive view of the whole subject.

In the history of Rome, we find a little spot of sunshine in the
valley where woman has been destined to live, unable from her lowly
situation to take an expansive view of that field of moral and mental
improvement, which she should have been busy in cultivating.

 ‘In the earliest and best days of Rome, the first magistrates and
 generals of armies ploughed their own fields, and threshed their own
 grain. Integrity, industry and simplicity, were the prevailing virtues
 of the times; and the character of woman was, as it always must be,
 graduated in a degree by that of man. Columella says, Roman husbands,
 having completed the labors of the day, entered their houses free
 from all care, and there enjoyed perfect repose. There reigned union
 and concord and industry, supported by mutual affections. The most
 beautiful woman depended for distinction on her economy and endeavors
 to assist in crowning her husband’s diligence with prosperity. All was
 in common between them; nothing was thought to belong more to one than
 another. The wife by her assiduity and activity within doors, equalled
 and seconded the industry and labor of her husband.’

In the then state of the world, we may conclude from this description,
that woman enjoyed as much happiness as was consistent with that
comparatively unimproved condition of our species; but now a new and
vast sphere of usefulness is opened to her, and she is pressed by
surrounding circumstances to come up to the help of the Lord against
the giant sins which desolate our beloved country. Shall woman shrink
from duty in this exigency, and retiring within her own domestic
circle, delight herself in the abundance of her own selfish enjoyments?
Shall she rejoice in her home, her husband, her children, and forget
her brethren and sisters in bondage, who know not what it is to call a
spot of earth their own, whose husbands and wives are torn from them by
relentless tyrants, and whose children are snatched from their arms by
their unfeeling task-masters, whenever interest, or convenience, tempts
them to this sacrilegious act? Shall woman disregard the situation of
thousands of her fellow creatures, who are the victims of intemperance
and licentiousness, and retreating to the privacy of her own
comfortable home, be satisfied that her whole duty is performed, when
she can exhibit ‘her children well clad and smiling, and her table
neatly spread with wholesome provisions?’ Shall she, because ‘her house
is her _home_,’ refuse her aid and her sympathy to the down trodden
slave, to the poor unhappy outcasts who are deprived of those blessings
which she so highly prizes? Did God give her those blessings to steel
her heart to the sufferings of her fellow creatures? Did he grant
her the possession of husband and children, to dry up the fountains
of feeling for those who know not the consolations of tenderness and
reciprocal affection? Ah no! for every such blessing, God demands a
grateful heart; and woman must be recreant to her duty, if she can
quietly sit down in the enjoyments of her own domestic circle, and not
exert herself to procure the same happiness for others.

But it is said woman has a mighty weapon in secret prayer. She has, I
acknowledge, _in common with man_; but the woman who prays in sincerity
for the regeneration of this guilty world, will accompany her prayers
by her labors. A friend of mine remarked--‘I was sitting in my chamber,
weeping over the miseries of the slave, and putting up my petitions
for his deliverance from bondage; when in the midst of my meditations,
it occurred to me that my tears, unaided by effort, could never melt
the chain of the slave. I must be up and doing.’ She is now an active
abolitionist--her prayers and her works go hand in hand.

I am here reminded of what a slave once said to his master, a Methodist
minister. The slaveholder inquired, ‘How did you like my sermon
to-day?’ ‘Very good, master, but it did not preach me free.’

Oh, my sisters, suffer me to entreat you to assert your privileges, and
to perform your duties as moral beings. Be not dismayed at the ridicule
of man; it is a weapon worthy only of little minds, and is employed by
those who feel that they cannot convince our judgment. Be not alarmed
at contumely, or scorn; we must expect this. I pray that we may meet
it with forbearance and love; and that nothing may drive us from the
performance of our high and holy duties. Let us ‘cease from man, whose
breath is in his nostrils, for wherein is he to be accounted of?’ and
press forward in all the great moral enterprises of the age, leaning
_only_ on the arm of our Beloved.

But I must return to the subject I commenced with, viz. the condition
of woman in Europe.

 ‘The northern nations bore a general resemblance to each other. War
 and hunting were considered the only honorable occupations for men,
 and all other employments were left to women and slaves. Even the
 Visigoths, on the coasts of Spain, left their fields and flocks to
 the care of women. The people who inhabit the vast extent of country
 between the Black sea and the North sea, are divided into various
 distinct races. The women are generally very industrious; even in
 their walks, they carry a portable distaff, and spin every step of the
 way. Both Croatian and Walachian women perform all the agricultural
 operations in addition to their own domestic concerns.’

Speaking of the Morlachian women, M. Fortis says, ‘Being treated like
beasts of burden, and expected to endure submissively every species
of hardship, they naturally become very dirty and careless in their
habits.’

The Cossack women afford a contrast to this disgusting picture.
They are very cleanly and industrious, and in the absence of their
husbands, supply their places by taking charge of all their usual
occupations, in addition to their own. It is rare for a Cossack woman
not to know some trade, such as dyeing cloth, tanning leather, &c.

The condition of Polish and Russian serfs in modern times is about
the same. The Polish women have scarcely clothing enough for decency,
and they are subjected to great hardships and privations. ‘In Russia,
women have been seen paving the streets, and performing other similar
drudgery. In Finland, they work like beasts of burden, and may be
seen for hours in snow water, up to the middle, tugging at boats and
sledges.’

In Flanders and in France, women are engaged in performing laborious
tasks; and even in England, it is not unusual to see them scraping up
manure from the streets with their hands, and gathering it into baskets.

In Greece, even now the women plough and carry heavy burdens, while the
lordly master of the family may be seen walking before them without any
incumbrance.[1]

Generally speaking, however, there is much more comparative equality of
labor between the sexes in Europe than among the Orientals.

I shall close this letter with a brief survey of the condition of women
among the Aborigines of America.

 ‘Before America was settled by Europeans, it was inhabited by Indian
 tribes, which greatly resembled each other in the treatment of their
 women. Every thing, except war and hunting, was considered beneath the
 dignity of man.--During long and wearisome marches, women were obliged
 to carry children, provisions and hammocks on their shoulders; they
 had the sole care of the horses and dogs, cut wood, pitched the tents,
 raised the corn, and made the clothing. When the husband killed game,
 he left it by a tree in the forest, returned home, and sent his wife
 several miles in search of it. In most of the tribes, women were not
 allowed to eat and drink with men, but stood and served them, and then
 ate what they left.’

The following affecting anecdote may give some idea of the sufferings
of these women:

 ‘Father Joseph reproved a female savage for destroying her infant
 daughter. She replied, “I wish my mother had thus prevented the
 manifold sufferings I have endured. Consider, father, our deplorable
 situation. Our husbands go out to hunt; we are dragged along with one
 infant at our breast, and another in a basket. Though tired with long
 walking, we are not allowed to sleep when we return, but must labor
 all night in grinding maize and making chica for them.--They get drunk
 and beat us, draw us by the hair of the head, and tread us under foot.
 Would to God my mother had put me under ground the moment I was born.”’

In Greenland, the situation of woman is equally deplorable. The men
hunt bears and catch seals; but when they have towed their booty to
land, they would consider it a disgrace to help the women drag it home,
or skin and dress it. They often stand and look idly on, while their
wives are staggering beneath the load that almost bends them to the
earth. The women are cooks, butchers, masons, curriers, shoemakers and
tailors. They will manage a boat in the roughest seas, and will often
push off from the shore in the midst of a storm, that would make the
hardiest European sailor tremble.

The page of history teems with woman’s wrongs, and it is wet with
woman’s tears.--For the sake of my degraded sex every where, and for
the sake of my brethren, who suffer just in proportion as they place
woman lower in the scale of creation than man, lower than her Creator
placed her, I entreat my sisters to arise in all the majesty of moral
power, in all the dignity of immortal beings, and plant themselves,
side by side, on the platform of human rights, with man, to whom they
were designed to be companions, equals and helpers in every good word
                                                              and work.

                                        Thine in the bonds of womanhood

                                                       SARAH M. GRIMKE.


FOOTNOTES:

[1] Since the preceding letters were in type, I have met with the
following account in a French work entitled ‘De l’education des meres
de famille ou de la civilization du Genre Humain par les femmes,’
printed at Brussels in 1837. ‘The periodicals have lately published
the following circumstance from the journal of an English physician,
who travelled in the East. He visited a slave market, where he saw
about twenty Greek women half naked, lying on the ground waiting for
a purchaser. One of them attracted the attention of an old Turk. The
barbarian examined her shoulders, her legs, her ears, her mouth, her
neck, with the minutest care, just as a horse is examined, and during
the inspection, the merchant praised the beauty of her eyes, the
elegance of her shape, and other perfections; he protested that the
poor girl was but thirteen years of age, &c. After a severe scrutiny
and some dispute about the price, she was sold body and soul for 1375
francs. The soul, it is true, was accounted of little value in the
bargain. The unfortunate creature, half fainting in the arms of her
mother, implored help in the most touching accents, but it availed
nothing.--This infernal scene passed in Europe in 1829, only 600
leagues from Paris and London, the two capitals of the human species,
and at the time in which I write, it is the living history of two
thirds of the inhabitants of the earth.’



                             LETTER VIII.

            ON THE CONDITION OF WOMEN IN THE UNITED STATES.


                                                     _Brookline, 1837._

MY DEAR SISTER,--I have now taken a brief survey of the condition of
woman in various parts of the world. I regret that my time has been so
much occupied by other things, that I have been unable to bestow that
attention upon the subject which it merits, and that my constant change
of place has prevented me from having access to books, which might
probably have assisted me in this part of my work. I hope that the
principles I have asserted will claim the attention of some of my sex,
who may be able to bring into view, more thoroughly than I have done,
the situation and degradation of woman. I shall now proceed to make a
few remarks on the condition of women in my own country.

During the early part of my life, my lot was cast among the
butterflies of the _fashionable_ world; and of this class of women,
I am constrained to say, both from experience and observation, that
their education is miserably deficient; that they are taught to regard
marriage as the one thing needful, the only avenue to distinction;
hence to attract the notice and win the attentions of men, by their
external charms, is the chief business of fashionable girls. They
seldom think that men will be allured by intellectual acquirements,
because they find, that where any mental superiority exists, a woman
is generally shunned and regarded as stepping out of her ‘appropriate
sphere,’ which, in their view, is to dress, to dance, to set out to the
best possible advantage her person, to read the novels which inundate
the press, and which do more to destroy her character as a rational
creature, than any thing else. Fashionable women regard themselves,
and are regarded by men, as pretty toys or as mere instruments of
pleasure; and the vacuity of mind, the heartlessness, the frivolity
which is the necessary result of this false and debasing estimate of
women, can only be fully understood by those who have mingled in the
folly and wickedness of fashionable life; and who have been called from
such pursuits by the voice of the Lord Jesus, inviting their weary and
heavy laden souls to come unto Him and learn of Him, that they may
find something worthy of their immortal spirit, and their intellectual
powers; that they may learn the high and holy purposes of their
creation, and consecrate themselves unto the service of God; and not,
as is now the case, to the pleasure of man.

There is another and much more numerous class in this country, who are
withdrawn by education or circumstances from the circle of fashionable
amusements, but who are brought up with the dangerous and absurd
idea, that _marriage_ is a kind of preferment; and that to be able to
keep their husband’s house, and render his situation comfortable, is
the end of her being. Much that she does and says and thinks is done
in reference to this situation; and to be married is too often held
up to the view of girls as the sine qua non of human happiness and
human existence. For this purpose more than for any other, I verily
believe the majority of girls are trained. This is demonstrated by
the imperfect education which is bestowed upon them, and the little
pains taken to cultivate their minds, after they leave school, by the
little time allowed them for reading, and by the idea being constantly
inculcated, that although all household concerns should be attended
to with scrupulous punctuality at particular seasons, the improvement
of their intellectual capacities is only a secondary consideration,
and may serve as an occupation to fill up the odds and ends of time.
In most families, it is considered a matter of far more consequence
to call a girl off from making a pie, or a pudding, than to interrupt
her whilst engaged in her studies. This mode of training necessarily
exalts, in their view, the animal above the intellectual and spiritual
nature, and teaches women to regard themselves as a kind of machinery,
necessary to keep the domestic engine in order, but of little value as
the _intelligent_ companions of men.

Let no one think, from these remarks, that I regard a knowledge
of housewifery as beneath the acquisition of women. Far from it:
I believe that a complete knowledge of household affairs is an
indispensable requisite in a woman’s education,--that by the mistress
of a family, whether married or single, doing her duty thoroughly
and _understandingly_, the happiness of the family is increased to
an incalculable degree, as well as a vast amount of time and money
saved. All I complain of is, that our education consists so almost
exclusively in culinary and other manual operations. I do long to see
the time, when it will no longer be necessary for women to expend so
many precious hours in furnishing ‘a well spread table,’ but that their
husbands will forego some of their accustomed indulgences in this way,
and encourage their wives to devote some portion of their time to
mental cultivation, even at the expense of having to dine sometimes on
baked potatoes, or bread and butter.

I believe the sentiment expressed by the author of ‘Live and let Live,’
is true:

 ‘Other things being equal, a woman of the highest mental endowments
 will always be the best housekeeper, for domestic economy, is a
 science that brings into action the qualities of the mind, as well as
 the graces of the heart. A quick perception, judgment, discrimination,
 decision and order are high attributes of mind, and are all in daily
 exercise in the well ordering of a family. If a sensible woman, an
 intellectual woman, a woman of genius, is not a good housewife, it
 is not because she is either, or all of those, but because there is
 some deficiency in her character, or some omission of duty which
 should make her very humble, instead of her indulging in any secret
 self-complacency on account of a certain superiority, which only
 aggravates her fault.’

The influence of women over the minds and character of _children_ of
both sexes, is allowed to be far greater than that of men. This being
the case by the very ordering of nature, women should be prepared by
education for the performance of their sacred duties as mothers and as
sisters. A late American writer,[2] speaking on this subject, says in
reference to an article in the Westminster Review:

 ‘I agree entirely with the writer in the high estimate which he
 places on female education, and have long since been satisfied,
 that the subject not only merits, but _imperiously demands_ a
 thorough reconsideration. The whole scheme must, in my opinion,
 be reconstructed. The great elements of usefulness and duty are
 too little attended to. Women ought, in my view of the subject,
 to approach to the best education now given to men, (I except
 mathematics and the classics,) far more I believe than has ever yet
 been attempted. Give me a host of educated, pious mothers and sisters,
 and I will do more to revolutionize a country, in moral and religious
 taste, in manners and in social virtues and intellectual cultivation,
 than I can possibly do in double or treble the time, with a similar
 host of educated men. I cannot but think that the miserable condition
 of the great body of the people in all ancient communities, is to be
 ascribed in a very great degree to the degradation of women.’

There is another way in which the general opinion, that women are
inferior to men, is manifested, that bears with tremendous effect on
the laboring class, and indeed on almost all who are obliged to earn
a subsistence, whether it be by mental or physical exertion--I allude
to the disproportionate value set on the time and labor of men and
of women. A man who is engaged in teaching, can always, I believe,
command a higher price for tuition than a woman--even when he teaches
the same branches, and is not in any respect superior to the woman.
This I know is the case in boarding and other schools with which I
have been acquainted, and it is so in every occupation in which the
sexes engage indiscriminately. As for example, in tailoring, a man has
twice, or three times as much for making a waistcoat or pantaloons as
a woman, although the work done by each may be equally good. In those
employments which are peculiar to women, their time is estimated at
only half the value of that of men. A woman who goes out to wash, works
as hard in proportion as a wood sawyer, or a coal heaver, but she is
not generally able to make more than half as much by a day’s work. The
low remuneration which women receive for their work, has claimed the
attention of a few philanthropists, and I hope it will continue to do
so until some remedy is applied for this enormous evil. I have known
a widow, left with four or five children, to provide for, unable to
leave home because her helpless babes demand her attention, compelled
to earn a scanty subsistence, by making coarse shirts at 12¹⁄₂ cents
a piece, or by taking in washing, for which she was paid by some
wealthy persons 12¹⁄₂ cents per dozen. All these things evince the
low estimation in which woman is held. There is yet another and more
disastrous consequence arising from this unscriptural notion--women
being educated, from earliest childhood, to regard themselves as
inferior creatures, have not that self-respect which conscious equality
would engender, and hence when their virtue is assailed, they yield to
temptation with facility, under the idea that it rather exalts than
debases them, to be connected with a superior being.

There is another class of women in this country, to whom I cannot
refer, without feelings of the deepest shame and sorrow. I allude to
our female slaves. Our southern cities are whelmed beneath a tide
of pollution; the virtue of female slaves is wholly at the mercy of
irresponsible tyrants, and women are bought and sold in our slave
markets, to gratify the brutal lust of those who bear the name of
Christians. In our slave States, if amid all her degradation and
ignorance, a woman desires to preserve her virtue unsullied, she is
either bribed or whipped into compliance, or if she dares resist her
seducer, her life by the laws of some of the slave States may be,
and has actually been sacrificed to the fury of disappointed passion.
Where such laws do not exist, the power which is necessarily vested in
the master over his property, leaves the defenceless slave entirely
at his mercy, and the sufferings of some females on this account,
both physical and mental, are intense. Mr. Gholson, in the House of
Delegates of Virginia, in 1832, said, ‘He really had been under the
impression that he owned his slaves. He had lately purchased four
women and ten children, in whom he thought he had obtained a great
bargain; for he supposed they were his own property, _as were his
brood mares_.’ But even if any laws existed in the United States, as
in Athens formerly, for the protection of female slaves, they would be
null and void, because the evidence of a colored person is not admitted
against a white, in any of our Courts of Justice in the slave States.
‘In Athens, if a female slave had cause to complain of any want of
respect to the laws of modesty, she could seek the protection of the
temple, and demand a change of owners; and such appeals were never
discountenanced, or neglected by the magistrate.’ In Christian America,
the slave has no refuge from unbridled cruelty and lust.

S. A. Forrall, speaking of the state of morals at the South, says,
‘Negresses when young and likely, are often employed by the planter, or
his friends, to administer to their sensual desires. This frequently is
a matter of speculation, for if the offspring, a mulatto, be a handsome
female, 800 or 1000 dollars may be obtained for her in the New Orleans
market. It is an occurrence of no uncommon nature to see a Christian
father sell his own daughter, and the brother his own sister.’ The
following is copied by the N. Y. Evening Star from the Picayune, a
paper published in New Orleans. ‘A very beautiful girl, belonging to
the estate of John French, a deceased gambler at New Orleans, was sold
a few days since for the round sum of $7,000. An ugly-looking bachelor
named Gouch, a member of the Council of one of the Principalities, was
the purchaser. The girl is a brunette; remarkable for her beauty and
intelligence, and there was considerable contention, who should be
the purchaser. She was, however, persuaded to accept Gouch, he having
made her princely promises.’ I will add but one more from the numerous
testimonies respecting the degradation of female slaves, and the
licentiousness of the South. It is from the Circular of the Kentucky
Union, for the moral and religious improvement of the colored race.
‘To the female character among our black population, we cannot allude
but with feelings of the bitterest shame. A similar condition of moral
pollution and utter disregard of a pure and virtuous reputation, is
to be found _only without the pale of Christendom_. That such a state
of society should exist in a Christian nation, claiming to be the
most enlightened upon earth, without calling forth any _particular
attention_ to its existence, though ever before our eyes and _in our_
families, is a moral phenomenon at once unaccountable and disgraceful.’
Nor does the colored woman suffer alone: the moral purity of the white
woman is deeply contaminated. In the daily habit of seeing the virtue
of her enslaved sister sacrificed without hesitancy or remorse, she
looks upon the crimes of seduction and illicit intercourse without
horror, and although not personally involved in the guilt, she loses
that value for innocence in her own, as well as the other sex, which
is one of the strongest safeguards to virtue. She lives in habitual
intercourse with men, whom she knows to be polluted by licentiousness,
and often is she compelled to witness in her own domestic circle, those
disgusting and heart-sickening jealousies and strifes which disgraced
and distracted the family of Abraham. In addition to all this, the
female slaves suffer every species of degradation and cruelty, which
the most wanton barbarity can inflict; they are indecently divested
of their clothing, sometimes tied up and severely whipped, sometimes
prostrated on the earth, while their naked bodies are torn by the
scorpion lash.

  ‘The whip on WOMAN’S shrinking flesh!
    Our soil yet reddening with the stains
  Caught from her scourging warm and fresh.’

Can any American woman look at these scenes of shocking licentiousness
and cruelty, and fold her hands in apathy, and say, ‘I have nothing to
do with slavery’? _She cannot and be guiltless._

I cannot close this letter, without saying a few words on the benefits
to be derived by men, as well as women, from the opinions I advocate
relative to the equality of the sexes. Many women are now supported, in
idleness and extravagance, by the industry of their husbands, fathers,
or brothers, who are compelled to toil out their existence, at the
counting house, or in the printing office, or some other laborious
occupation, while the wife and daughters and sisters take no part in
the support of the family, and appear to think that their sole business
is to spend the hard bought earnings of their male friends. I deeply
regret such a state of things, because I believe that if women felt
their responsibility, for the support of themselves, or their families
it would add strength and dignity to their characters, and teach
them more true sympathy for their husbands, than is now generally
manifested,--a sympathy which would be exhibited by actions as well as
words. Our brethren may reject my doctrine, because it runs counter
to common opinions, and because it wounds their pride; but I believe
they would be ‘partakers of the benefit’ resulting from the Equality of
the Sexes, and would find that woman, as their equal, was unspeakably
more valuable than woman as their inferior, both as a moral and an
intellectual being.

                                       Thine in the bonds of womanhood,

                                                       SARAH M. GRIMKE.


FOOTNOTES:

[2] Thomas S. Grimke.



                              LETTER IX.

                 HEROISM OF WOMEN--WOMEN IN AUTHORITY.


                                       _Brookline, 8th Mo. 25th, 1837._

MY DEAR SISTER,--It seems necessary to glance at the conduct of women
under circumstances which place them in juxtaposition with men,
although I regard it as entirely unimportant in proving the moral
equality of the sexes; because I condemn, in both, the exercise of that
brute force which is as contrary to the law of God in men as in women;
still, as a part of our history, I shall notice some instances of
courage exhibited by females.

‘Philippa, wife of Edward III., was the principal cause of the victory
gained over the Scots at Neville Cross. In the absence of her husband,
she rode among the troops, and exhorted them to “be of good courage.”’
Jane, Countess of Mountfort, and a contemporary of Philippa, likewise
possessed a great share of physical courage. The history of Joan of
Arc is too familiar to need repetition. During the reign of James II.
a singular instance of female intrepidity occurred in Scotland. Sir
John Cochrane being condemned to be hung, his daughter twice disguised
herself, and robbed the mail that brought his death warrant. In the
mean time, his pardon was obtained from the King. Instances might be
multiplied, but it is unnecessary. I shall therefore close these proofs
of female courage with one more fact. ‘During the revolutionary war,
the women shared in the patriotism and bravery of the men. Several
individuals carried their enthusiasm so far as to enter the army, where
they faced all the perils and fatigues of the camp, until the close of
the war.’

When I view my countrywomen in the character of soldiers, or even
behold them loading fire arms and moulding bullets for their brethren
to destroy men’s lives, I cannot refrain a sigh. I cannot but contrast
their conduct at that solemn crisis with the conduct of those women
who followed their Lord and Master with unresisting submission, to
Calvary’s Mount. With the precepts and example of a crucified Redeemer,
who, in that sublime precept, ‘Resist not evil,’ has interdicted to his
disciples all war and all violence, and taught us that the spirit of
retaliation for injuries, whether in the camp, or at the fire-side, is
wholly at variance with the peaceful religion he came to promulgate.
How little do we comprehend that simple truth, ‘By this shall all men
know that ye are my disciples, if ye have _love one to another_.’

Women have sometimes distinguished themselves in a way more consistent
with their duties as moral beings. During the war between the Romans
and the Sabines, the Sabine women who had been carried off by the
Romans, repaired to the Sabine camp, dressed in deep mourning, with
their little ones in their arms, to soften, if possible, the feelings
of their parents. They knelt at the feet of their relatives; and
when Hersilia, the wife of Romulus, described the kindness of their
husbands, and their unwillingness to be separated from them, their
fathers yielded to their entreaties, and an alliance was soon agreed
upon. In consequence of this important service, peculiar privileges
were conferred on women by the Romans. Brutus said of his wife, ‘I
must not answer Portia in the words of Hector, “Mind your wheel, and
to your maids give law,” for in courage, activity and concern for her
country’s freedom, she is inferior to none of us.’ After the fatal
battle of Cannæ, the Roman women consecrated all their ornaments to the
service of the state. But when the triumvirs attempted to tax them for
the expenses of carrying on a civil war, they resisted the innovation.
They chose Hortensia for their speaker, and went in a body to the
market-place to expostulate with the magistrates. The triumvirs wished
to drive them away, but they were compelled to yield to the wishes of
the people, and give the women a hearing. Hortensia pleaded so well the
cause of her sisters, who resolved that they would not voluntarily aid
in a _civil war_, that the number of women taxed was reduced from 1400
to 400.

In the wars of the Guelphs and the Ghibbelines, the emperor Conrad
refused all terms of capitulation to the garrison of Winnisberg, but
he granted the request of the women to pass out in safety with such of
their effects as they could carry themselves. Accordingly, they issued
from the besieged city, each bearing on her shoulders a husband, son,
father, or brother. They passed unmolested through the enemy’s camp,
which rung with acclamations of applause.

During our struggle for independence, the women were as exemplary as
the men in various instances of self-denial: they refused every article
of decoration for their persons; foreign elegances were laid aside, and
they cheerfully abstained from luxuries for their tables.

English history presents many instances of women exercising
prerogatives now denied them. In an action at law, it has been
determined that an unmarried woman, having a freehold, might vote for
members of Parliament; and it is recorded that lady Packington returned
two. Lady Broughton was keeper of the gatehouse prison. And in a much
later period, a woman was appointed governor of the house of correction
at Chelmsford, by order of the court. In the reign of George II. the
minister of Clerkenwell was chosen by a majority of women. The office
of grand chamberlain in 1822 was filled by two women; and that of clerk
of the crown, in the court of king’s bench, has been granted to a
female. The celebrated Anne, countess of Pembroke, held the hereditary
office of sheriff of Westmoreland, and exercised it in person, sitting
on the bench with the judges.

I need hardly advert to the names of Elizabeth of England, Maria
Theresa of Germany, Catharine of Russia, and Isabella of Spain, to
prove that women are capable of swaying the sceptre of royalty. The
page of history proves incontestibly, not only that they are as well
qualified to do so as men, but that there has been a comparatively
greater proportion of good queens, than of good kings; women who have
purchased their celebrity by individual strength of character.

I mention these women only to prove that intellect is not sexed; that
strength of mind is not sexed; and that our views about the duties of
men and the duties of women, the sphere of man and the sphere of woman,
are mere arbitrary opinions, differing in different ages and countries,
and dependant solely on the will and judgment of erring mortals.

As moral and responsible beings, men and women have the same sphere of
action, and the same duties devolve upon both; but no one can doubt
that the duties of each vary according to circumstances; that a father
and a mother, a husband and a wife, have sacred obligations resting on
them, which cannot possibly belong to those who do not sustain these
relations. But these duties and responsibilities do not attach to them
as men and as women, but as parents, husbands, and wives.

                                       Thine in the bonds of womanhood,

                                                       SARAH M. GRIMKE.



                               LETTER X.

                          INTELLECT OF WOMAN.


                                             _Brookline, 8th Mo. 1837._

MY DEAR SISTER,--It will scarcely be denied, I presume, that, as a
general rule, men do not desire the improvement of women. There are few
instances of men who are magnanimous enough to be entirely willing that
women should know more than themselves, on any subjects except dress
and cookery; and, indeed, this necessarily flows from their assumption
of superiority. As _they_ have determined that Jehovah has placed
woman on a lower platform than man, they of course wish to keep her
there; and hence the noble faculties of our minds are crushed, and our
reasoning powers are almost wholly uncultivated.

A writer in the time of Charles I. says--‘She that knoweth how to
compound a pudding, is more desirable than she who skilfully compounded
a poem. A female poet I mislike at all times.’ Within the last century,
it has been gravely asserted that, ‘chemistry enough to keep the pot
boiling, and geography enough to know the location of the different
rooms in her house, is learning sufficient for a woman.’ Byron, who
was too sensual to conceive of a pure and perfect companionship
between the sexes, would limit a woman’s library to a Bible and cookery
book. I have myself heard men, who knew for themselves the value of
intellectual culture, say they cared very little for a wife who could
not make a pudding, and smile with contempt at the ardent thirst for
knowledge exhibited by some women.

But all this is miserable wit and worse philosophy. It exhibits that
passion for the gratification of a pampered appetite, which is beneath
those who claim to be so far above us, and may justly be placed on
a par with the policy of the slaveholder, who says that men will be
better slaves, if they are not permitted to learn to read.

In spite, however, of the obstacles which impede the progress of women
towards that state of high mental cultivation for which her Creator
prepared her, the tendency towards the universal dissemination of
knowledge has had its influence on their destinies; and in all ages, a
few have surmounted every hindrance, and proved, beyond dispute, that
they have talents equal to their brethren.

Cornelia, the daughter of Scipio Africanus, was distinguished for
virtue, learning and good sense. She wrote and spoke with uncommon
elegance and purity. Cicero and Quinctilian bestow high praise upon
her letters, and the eloquence of her children was attributed to
her careful superintendence. This reminds me of a remark made by my
brother, Thomas S. Grimke, when speaking of the importance of women
being well educated, that ‘educated men would never make educated
women, but educated women would make educated men.’ I believe the
sentiment is correct, because if the wealth of latent intellect among
women was fully evolved and improved, they would rejoice to communicate
to their sons all their own knowledge, and inspire them with desires to
drink from the fountain of literature.

I pass over many interesting proofs of the intellectual powers of
women; but I must not omit glancing at the age of chivalry, which
has been compared to a golden thread running through the dark ages.
During this remarkable era, women who, before this period, had been
subject to every species of oppression and neglect, were suddenly
elevated into deities, and worshipped with a mad fanaticism. It is
not improbable, however, that even the absurdities of chivalry were
beneficial to women, as it raised them from that extreme degradation
to which they had been condemned, and prepared the way for them to
be permitted to enjoy some scattered rays from the sun of science
and literature. As the age of knight-errantry declined, men began to
take pride in learning, and women shared the advantages which this
change produced. ‘Women preached in public, supported controversies,
published and defended theses, filled the chairs of philosophy and
law, harangued the popes in Latin, wrote Greek and read Hebrew. Nuns
wrote poetry, women of rank became divines, and young girls publicly
exhorted Christian princes to take up arms for the recovery of the
holy sepulchre. Hypatia, daughter of Theon of Alexandria, succeeded
her father in the government of the Platonic school, and filled with
reputation a seat, where many celebrated philosophers had taught. The
people regarded her as an oracle, and magistrates consulted her in
all important cases. No reproach was ever uttered against the perfect
purity of her manners. She was unembarrassed in large assemblies of
men, because their admiration was tempered with the most scrupulous
respect. In the 13th century, a young lady of Bologna pronounced a
Latin oration at the age of twenty-three. At twenty-six, she took the
degree of doctor of laws, and began publicly to expound Justinian. At
thirty, she was elevated to a professor’s chair, and taught the law
to a crowd of scholars from all nations. Italy produced many learned
and gifted women, among whom, perhaps none was more celebrated than
Victoria Colonna, Marchioness of Pescara. In Spain, Isabella of Rosera
converted Jews by her eloquent preaching;’ and in England the names
of many women, from Lady Jane Gray down to Harriet Martineau, are
familiar to every reader of history. Of the last mentioned authoress,
Lord Brougham said that her writings on political economy were doing
more good than those of any man in England. There is a contemporary
of Harriet Martineau, who has recently rendered valuable services
to her country. She presented a memorial to Parliament, stating the
dangerous parts of the coast, where light-houses were needed, and at
her suggestion, several were erected. She keeps a life-boat and sailors
in her pay, and has been the means of saving many lives. Although she
has been deprived of the use of her limbs since early childhood, yet
even when the storm is unusually severe, she goes herself on the beach
in her carriage, that she may be sure her men perform their duty. She
understands several languages, and is now engaged in writing a work on
the Northern languages of Europe. ‘In Germany, the influence of women
on literature is considerable, though less obvious than in some other
countries. Literary families frequently meet at each others’ houses,
and learned and intelligent women are often the brightest ornaments of
these social circles.’ France has produced many distinguished women,
whose names are familiar to every lover of literature. And I believe it
is conceded universally, that Madame de Stael was intellectually the
greatest woman that ever lived. The United States have produced several
female writers, some of whom have talents of the highest order. But
women, even in this free republic, do not enjoy _all_ the intellectual
advantages of men, although there is a perceptible improvement within
the last ten or twenty years; and I trust there is a desire awakened
in my sisters for solid acquirements, which will elevate them to their
‘appropriate sphere,’ and enable them to ‘adorn the doctrine of God our
Saviour in all things.’

                                       Thine in the bonds of womanhood,

                                                       SARAH M. GRIMKE.



                              LETTER XI.

                            DRESS OF WOMEN.


                                            _Brookline, 9th Mo., 1837._

MY DEAR SISTER,--When I view woman as an immortal being, travelling
through this world to that city whose builder and maker is God,--when
I contemplate her in all the sublimity of her spiritual existence,
bearing the image and superscription of Jehovah, emanating from Him
and partaking of his nature, and destined, if she fulfils her duty,
to dwell with him through the endless ages of eternity,--I mourn that
she has lived so far below her privileges and her obligations, as a
rational and accountable creature; and I ardently long to behold her
occupying that sphere in which I believe her Creator designed her to
move.

Woman, in all ages and countries, has been the scoff and the jest of
her lordly master. If she attempted, like him, to improve her mind, she
was ridiculed as pedantic, and driven from the temple of science and
literature by coarse attacks and vulgar sarcasms. If she yielded to
the pressure of circumstances, and sought relief from the monotony of
existence by resorting to the theatre and the ball-room, by ornamenting
her person with flowers and with jewels, while her mind was empty and
her heart desolate; she was still the mark at which wit and satire and
cruelty levelled their arrows.

‘Woman,’ says Adam Clarke, ‘has been invidiously defined, _an animal
of dress_. How long will they permit themselves to be thus degraded?’
I have been an attentive observer of my sex, and I am constrained to
believe that the passion for dress, which so generally characterizes
them, is one cause why there so is little of that solid improvement
and weight of character which might be acquired under almost any
circumstances, if the mind were not occupied by the love of admiration,
and the desire to gratify personal vanity. I have already adduced some
instances to prove the inordinate love of dress, which is exhibited
by women in a state of heathenism; I shall, therefore, confine myself
now to what are called Christian countries; only remarking that
previous to the introduction of Christianity into the Roman empire, the
extravagance of apparel had arisen to an unprecedented height. ‘Jewels,
expensive embroidery, and delicious perfumes, were used in great
profusion by those who could afford them.’ The holy religion of Jesus
Christ came in at this period, and stript luxury and wealth of all
their false attractions. ‘Women of the noblest and wealthiest families,
surrounded by the seductive allurements of worldly pleasure, renounced
them all. Undismayed by severe edicts against the new religion, they
appeared before the magistrates, and by pronouncing the simple words,
“I am a Christian,” calmly resigned themselves to imprisonment,
ignominy and death.’ Could such women have had their minds occupied
by the foolish vanity of ornamental apparel? No! Christianity struck
at the root of all sin, and consequently we find the early Christians
could not fight, or swear, or wear costly clothing. Cave, in his work
entitled ‘Primitive Christianity,’ has some interesting remarks on this
subject, showing that simplicity of dress was not then esteemed an
unimportant part of Christianity.

Very soon, however, when the fire of persecution was no longer blazing,
pagan customs became interwoven with Christianity. The professors of
the religion of a self-denying Lord, whose kingdom was not of this
world, began to use the sword, to return railing for railing, to take
oaths, to mingle heathen forms and ceremonies with Christian worship,
to engraft on the beautiful simplicity of piety, the feasts and
observances which were usual at heathen festivals in honor of the gods,
and to adorn their persons with rich and ornamental apparel. And now if
we look at Christendom, there is scarcely a vestige of that religion,
which the Redeemer of men came to promulgate. The Christian world is
much in the situation of the Jewish nation, when the babe of Bethlehem
was born, full of outside observances, which they substitute for mercy
and love, for self-denial and good works, rigid in the performance
of religious duties, but ready, if the Lord Jesus came amongst them
and judged them by their fruits, as he did the Pharisees formerly, to
crucify him as a slanderer. Indeed, I believe the remark of a late
author is perfectly correct:

 ‘Strange as it may seem, yet I do not hesitate to declare my belief
 that it is easier to make Pagan nations Christians, than to reform
 Christian communities and fashion them anew, after the pure and
 simple standard of the gospel. Cast your eye over Christian countries,
 and see what a multitude of causes combine to resist and impair
 the influence of Christian institutions. Behold the conformity of
 Christians to the world, in its prodigal pleasures and frivolous
 amusements, in its corrupt opinions and sentiments, of false honor.
 Behold the wide spread ignorance and degrading superstition; the power
 of prejudice and the authority of custom; the unchristian character of
 our systems of education; and the dread of the frowns and ridicule of
 the world, and we discover at once a host of more formidable enemies
 to the progress of _true religion_ in Christian, than in heathen
 lands.’

But I must proceed to examine what is the state of professing
Christendom, as regards the subject of this letter. A few words will
suffice. The habits and employments of fashionable circles are nearly
the same throughout Christian communities. The fashion of dress, which
varies more rapidly than the changing seasons, is still, as it has
been from time immemorial, an all-absorbing object of interest. The
simple cobbler of Agawam, who wrote in Massachusetts as early as 1647,
speaking of women, says,

 “It is no marvel they wear drailes on the hinder part of their heads,
 having nothing, as it seems, in the fore part, but a few squirrels’
 brains to help them frisk from one fashion to another.’

It must, however, be conceded, that although there are too many women
who merit this severe reprehension, there is a numerous class whose
improvement of mind and devotion to the cause of humanity justly
entitle them to our respect and admiration. One of the most striking
characteristics of modern times, is the tendency toward a universal
dissemination of knowledge in all Protestant communities. But the
character of woman has been elevated more by participating in the
great moral enterprises of the day, than by anything else. It would
astonish us if we could see at a glance all the labor, the patience,
the industry, the fortitude which woman has exhibited, in carrying on
the causes of Moral Reform, Anti-Slavery, &c. Still, even these noble
and ennobling pursuits have not destroyed personal vanity. Many of
those who are engaged in these great and glorious reformations, watch
with eager interest, the ever varying freaks of the goddess of fashion,
and are not exceeded by the butterflies of the ball-room in their love
of curls, artificial flowers, embroidery and gay apparel. Many a woman
will ply her needle with ceaseless industry, to obtain money to forward
a favorite benevolent scheme, while at the same time she will expend on
useless articles of dress, more than treble the sum which she procures
by the employment of her needle, and which she might throw into the
Lord’s treasury, and leave herself leisure to cultivate her mind, and
to mingle among the poor and the afflicted more than she can possibly
do now.

I feel exceedingly solicitous to draw the attention of my sisters to
this subject. I know that it is called trifling, and much is said about
dressing fashionably, and elegantly, and becomingly, without thinking
about it. This I do not believe can be done. If we indulge our fancy
in the chameleon caprices of fashion, or in wearing ornamental and
extravagant apparel, the mind must be in no small degree engaged in the
gratification of personal vanity.

Lest any one may suppose from my being a Quaker, that I should like to
see a uniform dress adopted, I will say, that I have no partiality
for their peculiar costume, except so far as I find it simple and
convenient; and I have not the remotest desire to see it worn, where
one more commodious can be substituted. But I do believe one of the
chief obstacles in the way of woman’s elevation to the same platform
of human rights, and moral dignity, and intellectual improvement, with
her brother, on which God placed her, and where he designed her to
act her part as an immortal creature, is her love of dress. ‘It has
been observed,’ says Scott, ‘that foppery and extravagance as to dress
_in men_ are most emphatically condemned by the apostle’s silence on
the subject, for this intimated that surely _they_ could be under no
temptation to such a childish vanity.’ But even those men who are
superior to such a childish vanity in themselves, are, nevertheless,
ever ready to encourage it in women. They know that so long as we
submit to be dressed like dolls, we never can rise to the stations of
duty and usefulness from which they desire to exclude us; and they are
willing to grant us paltry indulgences, which forward their own design
of keeping us out of our appropriate sphere, while they deprive us of
essential rights.

To me it appears beneath the dignity of woman to bedeck herself in
gewgaws and trinkets, in ribbons and laces, to gratify the eye of man.
I believe, furthermore, that we owe a solemn duty to the poor. Many a
woman, in what is called humble life, spends nearly all her earnings in
dress, because she wants to be as well attired as her employer. It is
often argued that, as the birds and the flowers are gaily adorned by
nature’s hand, there can be no sin in woman’s ornamenting her person.
My reply is, God created me neither a bird nor a flower; and I aspire
to something more than a resemblance to them. Besides, the gaudy colors
in which birds and flowers are arrayed, create in them no feelings of
vanity; but as human beings, we are susceptible of these passions,
which are nurtured and strengthened by such adornments. ‘Well,’ I am
often asked, ‘where is the limitation?’ This it is not my business to
decide. Every woman, as Judson remarks, can best settle this on her
knees before God. He has commanded her not to be conformed to this
world, but to be transformed by the renewing of her mind, that she may
know what is the good and acceptable and perfect will of God. He made
the dress of the Jewish women the subject of special denunciation by
his prophet--Is. 3: 16-26; yet the chains and the bracelets, the rings
and the ear-rings, and the changeable suits of apparel, are still worn
by Christian women. He has commanded them, through his apostles, not
to adorn themselves with broidered hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly
array. Not to let their adorning be the ‘outward adorning of plaiting
the hair, or of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel, but let
it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible,
even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight
of God of great price;’ yet we disregard these solemn admonitions.
May we not form some correct estimate of dress, by asking ourselves
how we should feel, if we saw ministers of the gospel rise to address
an audience with ear-rings dangling from their ears, glittering rings
on their fingers, and a wreath of artificial flowers on their brow,
and the rest of their apparel in keeping? If it would be wrong for
a minister, it is wrong for every professing Christian. God makes no
distinction between the moral and religious duties of ministers and
people. We are bound to be ‘a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, a
peculiar people, a holy nation; that we should show forth the praises
of him who hath called us out of darkness into his marvellous light.’

                                       Thine in the bonds of womanhood,

                                                       SARAH M. GRIMKE.



                              LETTER XII.

                     LEGAL DISABILITIES OF WOMEN.


                                         _Concord, 9th Mo., 6th, 1837._

MY DEAR SISTER,--There are few things which present greater obstacles
to the improvement and elevation of woman to her appropriate sphere
of usefulness and duty, than the laws which have been enacted to
destroy her independence, and crush her individuality; laws which,
although they are framed for her government, she has had no voice in
establishing, and which rob her of some of her _essential rights_.
Woman has no political existence. With the single exception of
presenting a petition to the legislative body, she is a cipher in the
nation; or, if not actually so in representative governments, she is
only counted, like the slaves of the South, to swell the number of
law-makers who form decrees for her government, with little reference
to her benefit, except so far as her good may promote their own. I
am not sufficiently acquainted with the laws respecting women on the
continent of Europe, to say anything about them. But Prof. Follen,
in his essay on ‘The Cause of Freedom in our Country,’ says, ‘Woman,
though fully possessed of that rational and moral nature which is the
foundation of all rights, enjoys amongst us fewer legal rights than
under the civil law of continental Europe.’ I shall confine myself to
the laws of our country. These laws bear with peculiar rigor on married
women. Blackstone, in the chapter entitled ‘Of husband and wife,’
says:--

 ‘By marriage, the husband and wife are one person in law; that is,
 _the very being, or legal existence of the woman_ is suspended during
 the marriage, or at least is incorporated and consolidated into that
 of the husband under whose wing, protection and cover she performs
 everything.’ ‘For this reason, a man cannot grant anything to his
 wife, or enter into covenant with her; for the grant would be to
 suppose her separate existence, and to covenant with her would be to
 covenant with himself; and therefore it is also generally true, that
 all compacts made between husband and wife when single, are voided by
 the intermarriage. A woman indeed may be attorney for her husband; but
 that implies no separation from, but is rather a representation of,
 her love.’

Here now, the very being of a woman, like that of a slave, is absorbed
in her master. All contracts made with her, like those made with slaves
by their owners, are a mere nullity. Our kind defenders have legislated
away almost all our legal rights, and in the true spirit of such
injustice and oppression, have kept us in ignorance of those very laws
by which we are governed. They have persuaded us, that we have no right
to investigate the laws, and that, if we did, we could not comprehend
them; they alone are capable of understanding the mysteries of
Blackstone, &c. But they are not backward to make us feel the practical
operation of their power over our actions.

 ‘The husband is bound to provide his wife with necessaries by law, as
 much as himself; and if she contracts debts for them, he is obliged
 to pay for them; but for anything besides necessaries, he is not
 chargeable.’

Yet a man may spend the property he has acquired by marriage at the
ale-house, the gambling table, or in any other way that he pleases.
Many instances of this kind have come to my knowledge; and women, who
have brought their husbands handsome fortunes, have been left, in
consequence of the wasteful and dissolute habits of their husbands,
in straitened circumstances, and compelled to toil for the support of
their families.

 ‘If the wife be indebted before marriage, the husband is bound
 afterwards to pay the debt; for he has adopted her and her
 circumstances together.’

The wife’s property is, I believe, equally liable for her husband’s
debts contracted before marriage.

 ‘If the wife be injured in her person or property, she can bring no
 action for redress without her husband’s concurrence, and his name as
 well as her own: neither can she be sued, without making her husband a
 defendant.’

This law that ‘a wife can bring no action,’ &c., is similar to the law
respecting slaves, ‘A slave cannot bring a suit against his master, or
any other person, for an injury--his master, must bring it.’ So if any
damages are recovered for an injury committed on a wife, the husband
pockets it; in the case of the slave, the master does the same.

 ‘In criminal prosecutions, the wife may be indicted and punished
 separately, unless there be evidence of coercion from the fact that
 the offence was committed in the presence, or by the command of her
 husband. A wife is excused from punishment for theft committed in the
 presence, or by the command of her husband.’

It would be difficult to frame a law better calculated to destroy the
responsibility of woman as a moral being, or a free agent. Her husband
is supposed to possess unlimited control over her; and if she can offer
the flimsy excuse that he bade her steal, she may break the eighth
commandment with impunity, as far as human laws are concerned.

 ‘Our law, in general, considers man and wife as one person; yet there
 are some instances in which she is separately considered, as inferior
 to him and acting by his compulsion. Therefore, all deeds executed,
 and acts done by her during her coverture (i. e. marriage,) are void,
 except it be a fine, or like matter of record, in which case she must
 be solely and secretly examined, to learn if her act be voluntary.’

Such a law speaks volumes of the abuse of that power which men have
vested in their own hands. Still the private examination of a wife, to
know whether she accedes to the disposition of property made by her
husband is, in most cases, a mere form; a wife dares not do what will
be disagreeable to one who is, in his own estimation, her superior,
and who makes her feel, in the privacy of domestic life, that she has
thwarted him. With respect to the nullity of deeds or acts done by a
wife, I will mention one circumstance. A respectable woman borrowed of
a female friend a sum of money to relieve her son from some distressing
pecuniary embarrassment. Her husband was from home, and she assured the
lender, that as soon as he returned, he would gratefully discharge the
debt. She gave her note, and the lender, entirely ignorant of the law
that a man is not obliged to discharge such a debt, actually borrowed
the money, and lent it to the distressed and weeping mother. The father
returned home, refused to pay the debt, and the person who had loaned
the money was obliged to pay both principal and interest to the friend
who lent it to her. Women should certainly know the laws by which they
are governed, and from which they frequently suffer; yet they are kept
in ignorance, nearly as profound, of their legal rights, and of the
legislative enactments which are to regulate their actions, as slaves.

 ‘The husband, by the old law, might give his wife moderate correction,
 as he is to answer for her misbehavior. The law thought it reasonable
 to entrust him with this power of restraining her by domestic
 chastisement. The courts of law will still permit a husband to
 restrain a wife of her liberty, in case of any gross misbehavior.’

What a mortifying proof this law affords, of the estimation in which
woman is held! She is placed completely in the hands of a being subject
like herself to the outbursts of passion, and therefore unworthy to be
trusted with power. Perhaps I may be told respecting this law, that
it is a dead letter, as I am sometimes told about the slave laws; but
this is not true in either case. The slaveholder does kill his slave
by moderate correction, as the law allows; and many a husband, among
the poor, exercises the right given him by the law, of degrading
woman by personal chastisement. And among the higher ranks, if actual
imprisonment is not resorted to, women are not unfrequently restrained
of the liberty of going to places of worship by irreligious husbands,
and of doing many other things about which, as moral and responsible
beings, _they_ should be the _sole_ judges. Such laws remind me of
the reply of some little girls at a children’s meeting held recently
at Ipswich. The lecturer told them that God had created four orders
of beings with which he had made us acquainted through the Bible. The
first was angels, the second was man, the third beasts; and now,
children, what is the fourth? After a pause, several girls replied,
‘WOMEN.’

 ‘A woman’s personal property by marriage becomes absolutely her
 husband’s, which, at his death, he may leave entirely away from her.’

And farther, all the avails of her labor are absolutely in the power
of her husband. All that she acquires by her industry is his; so that
she cannot, with her own honest earnings, become the legal purchaser
of any property. If she expends her money for articles of furniture,
to contribute to the comfort of her family, they are liable to be
seized for her husband’s debts: and I know an instance of a woman, who
by labor and economy had scraped together a little maintenance for
herself and a do-little husband, who was left, at his death, by virtue
of his last will and testament, to be supported by charity. I knew
another woman, who by great industry had acquired a little money which
she deposited in a bank for safe keeping. She had saved this pittance
whilst able to work, in hopes that when age or sickness disqualified
her for exertion, she might have something to render life comfortable,
without being a burden to her friends. Her husband, a worthless, idle
man, discovered this hid treasure, drew her little stock from the
bank, and expended it all in extravagance and vicious indulgence. I
know of another woman, who married without the least idea that she was
surrendering her rights to all her personal property. Accordingly, she
went to the bank as usual to draw her dividends, and the person who
paid her the money, and to whom she was personally known as an owner
of shares in that bank, remarking the change in her signature, withdrew
the money, informing her that if she were married, she had no longer
a right to draw her dividends without an order from her husband. It
appeared that she intended having a little fund for private use, and
had not even told her husband that she owned this stock, and she was
not a little chagrined, when she found that it was not at her disposal.
I think she was wrong to conceal the circumstance. The relation of
husband and wife is too near and sacred to admit of secrecy about money
matters, unless positive necessity demands it; and I can see no excuse
for any woman entering into a marriage engagement with a design to keep
her husband ignorant that she was possessed of property. If she was
unwilling to give up her property to his disposal, she had infinitely
better have remained single. The laws above cited are not very unlike
the slave laws of Louisiana.

 ‘All that a slave possesses belongs to his master; he possesses
 nothing of his own, except what his master chooses he should possess.’

 ‘By the marriage, the husband is absolutely master of the profits of
 the wife’s lands during the coverture, and if he has had a living
 child, and survives the wife, he retains the whole of those lands,
 if they are estates of inheritance, during his life; but the wife
 is entitled only to one third if she survives, out of the husband’s
 estates of inheritance. But this she has, whether she has had a child
 or not.’ ‘With regard to the property of women, there is taxation
 without representation; for they pay taxes without having the liberty
 of voting for representatives.’

And this taxation, without representation, be it remembered, was the
cause of our Revolutionary war, a grievance so heavy, that it was
thought necessary to purchase exemption from it at an immense expense
of blood and treasure, yet the daughters of New England, as well as of
all the other States of this free Republic, are suffering a similar
injustice--but for one, I had rather we should suffer any injustice or
oppression, than that my sex should have any voice in the political
affairs of the nation.

The laws I have quoted, are, I believe, the laws of Massachusetts, and,
with few exceptions, of all the States in this Union. ‘In Louisiana
and Missouri, and possibly, in some other southern States, a woman not
only has half her husband’s property by right at his death, but may
always be considered as possessed of half his gains during his life;
having at all times power to bequeath that amount.’ That the laws which
have generally been adopted in the United States, for the government
of women, have been framed almost entirely for the exclusive benefit
of men, and with a design to oppress women, by depriving them of all
control over their property, is too manifest to be denied. Some liberal
and enlightened men, I know, regret the existence of these laws; and
I quote with pleasure an extract from Harriet Martineau’s Society in
America, as a proof of the assertion. ‘A liberal minded lawyer of
Boston, told me that his advice to testators always is to leave the
largest possible amount to the widow, subject to the condition of her
leaving it to the children; but that it is with shame that he reflects
that any woman should owe that to his professional advice, which
the law should have secured to her as a right.’ I have known a few
instances where men have left their whole property to their wives, when
they have died, leaving only minor children; but I have known more
instances of ‘the friend and helper of many years, being portioned off
like a salaried domestic,’ instead of having a comfortable independence
secured to her, while the children were amply provided for.

As these abuses do exist, and women suffer intensely from them, our
brethren are called upon in this enlightened age, by every sentiment of
honor, religion and justice, to repeal these unjust and unequal laws,
and restore to woman those rights which they have wrested from her.
Such laws approximate too nearly to the laws enacted by slaveholders
for the government of their slaves, and must tend to debase and
depress the mind of that being, whom God created as a help meet for
man, or ‘helper like unto himself,’ and designed to be his equal and
his companion. Until such laws are annulled, woman never can occupy
that exalted station for which she was intended by her Maker. And just
in proportion as they are practically disregarded, which is the case
to some extent, just so far is woman assuming that independence and
nobility of character which she ought to exhibit.

The various laws which I have transcribed, leave women very little more
liberty, or power, in some respects, than the slave. ‘A slave,’ says
the civil code of Louisiana, ‘is one who is in the power of a master,
to whom he belongs. He can possess nothing, nor acquire anything, but
what must belong to his master.’ I do not wish by any means to intimate
that the condition of free women can be compared to that of slaves in
suffering, or in degradation; still, I believe the laws which deprive
married women of their rights and privileges, have a tendency to
lessen them in their own estimation as moral and responsible beings,
and that their being made by civil law inferior to their husbands, has
a debasing and mischievous effect upon them, teaching them practically
the fatal lesson to look unto man for protection and indulgence.

Ecclesiastical bodies, I believe, without exception, follow the example
of legislative assemblies, in excluding woman from any participation
in forming the discipline by which she is governed. The men frame the
laws, and, with few exceptions, claim to execute them on both sexes. In
ecclesiastical, as well as civil courts, woman is tried and condemned,
not by a jury of her peers, but by beings, who regard themselves as
her superiors in the scale of creation. Although looked upon as an
inferior, when considered as an intellectual being, woman is punished
with the same severity as man, when she is guilty of moral offences.
Her condition resembles, in some measure, that of the slave, who,
while he is denied the advantages of his more enlightened master, is
treated with even greater rigor of the law. Hoping that in the various
reformations of the day, women may be relieved from some of their legal
disabilities, I remain,

                                       Thine in the bonds of womanhood,

                                                       SARAH M. GRIMKE.



                             LETTER XIII.

                     RELATION OF HUSBAND AND WIFE.


                                            _Brookline, 9th Mo., 1837._

MY DEAR SISTER,--Perhaps some persons may wonder that I should attempt
to throw out my views on the important subject of marriage, and may
conclude that I am altogether disqualified for the task, because I
lack experience. However, I shall not undertake to settle the specific
duties of husbands and wives, but only to exhibit opinions based on
the word of God, and formed from a little knowledge of human nature,
and close observation of the working of generally received notions
respecting the dominion of man over woman.

When Jehovah ushered into existence man, created in his own image,
he instituted marriage as a part of paradisaical happiness: it was a
_divine ordination_, not a civil contract. God established it, and man,
except by special permission, has no right to annul it. There can be no
doubt that the creation of Eve perfected the happiness of Adam; hence,
our all-wise and merciful Father made her as he made Adam, in his own
image after his likeness, crowned her with glory and honor, and placed
in her hand, as well as in his, the sceptre of dominion over the whole
lower creation. Where there was perfect equality, and the same ability
to receive and comprehend divine truth, and to obey divine injunctions,
there could be no superiority. If God had placed Eve under the
guardianship of Adam, after having endowed her, as richly as him, with
moral perceptions, intellectual faculties, and spiritual apprehensions,
he would at once have interposed a fallible being between her and her
Maker. He could not, in simple consistency with himself, have done
this; for the Bible teems with instructions not to put any confidence
in man.

The passage on which the generally received opinion, that husbands are
invested by divine command with authority over their wives, as I have
remarked in a previous letter, is a prediction; and I am confirmed in
this belief, because the same language is used to Cain respecting Abel.
The text is obscure; but on a comparison of it with subsequent events,
it appears to me that it was a prophecy of the dominion which Cain
would usurp over his brother, and which issued in the murder of Abel.
It could not allude to any thing but physical dominion, because Cain
had already exhibited those evil passions which subsequently led him to
become an assassin.

I have already shown, that man has exercised the most unlimited and
brutal power over woman, in the peculiar character of husband,--a word
in most countries synonymous with tyrant. I shall not, therefore,
adduce any further proofs of the fulfilment of that prophecy, ‘He
will rule over thee,’ from the history of heathen nations, but just
glance at the condition of woman in the relation of wife in Christian
countries.

‘Previous to the introduction of the religion of Jesus Christ, the
state of society was wretchedly diseased. The relation of the sexes to
each other had become so gross in its manifested forms, that it was
difficult to perceive the pure conservative principle in its inward
essence.’ Christianity came in, at this juncture, with its hallowed
influence, and has without doubt tended to lighten the yoke of bondage,
to purify the manners, and give the spiritual in some degree an empire
over the animal nature. Still, that state which was designed by God to
increase the happiness of woman as well as man, often proves the means
of lessening her comfort, and degrading her into the mere machine of
another’s convenience and pleasure. Woman, instead of being elevated
by her union with man, which might be expected from an alliance with
a superior being, is in reality lowered. She generally loses her
individuality, her independent character, her moral being. She becomes
absorbed into him, and henceforth is looked at, and acts through the
medium of her husband.

In the wealthy classes of society, and those who are in comfortable
circumstances, women are exempt from great corporeal exertion, and
are protected by public opinion, and by the genial influence of
Christianity, from much physical ill treatment. Still, there is a vast
amount of secret suffering endured, from the forced submission of women
to the opinions and whims of their husbands. Hence they are frequently
driven to use deception, to compass their ends. They are early taught
that to appear to yield, is the only way to govern. Miserable sophism!
I deprecate such sentiments, as being peculiarly hostile to the dignity
of woman. If she submits, let her do it openly, honorably, not to gain
her point, but as a matter of Christian duty. But let her beware how
she permits her husband to be her conscience-keeper. On all moral and
religious subjects, she is bound to think and to act for herself. Where
confidence and love exist, a wife will naturally converse with her
husband as with her dearest friend, on all that interests her heart,
and there will be a perfectly free interchange of sentiment; but _she
is no more bound to be governed by his judgment_, than he is by hers.
They are standing on the same platform of human rights, are equally
under the government of God, and accountable to him, and him alone.

I have sometimes been astonished and grieved at the servitude of
women, and at the little idea many of them seem to have of their own
moral existence and responsibilities. A woman who is asked to sign a
petition for the abolition of slavery in the District of Columbia, or
to join a society for the purpose of carrying forward the annihilation
of American slavery, or any other great reformation, not unfrequently
replies, ‘My husband does not approve of it.’ She merges her rights and
her duties in her husband, and thus virtually chooses him for a savior
and a king, and rejects Christ as her Ruler and Redeemer. I know some
women are very glad of so convenient a pretext to shield themselves
from the performance of duty; but there are others, who, under a
mistaken view of their obligations as wives, submit conscientiously to
this species of oppression, and go mourning on their way, for want of
that holy fortitude, which would enable them to fulfil their duties as
moral and responsible beings, without reference to poor fallen man. O
that woman may arise in her dignity as an immortal creature, and speak,
think and act as unto God, and not unto man!

There is, perhaps, less bondage of mind among the poorer classes,
because their sphere of duty is more contracted, and they are deprived
of the means of intellectual culture, and of the opportunity of
exercising their judgment, on many moral subjects of deep interest and
of vital importance. Authority is called into exercise by resistance,
and hence there will be mental bondage only in proportion as the
faculties of mind are evolved, and woman feels herself as a rational
and intelligent being, on a footing with man. But women, among the
lowest classes of society, so far as my observation has extended,
suffer intensely from the brutality of their husbands. Duty as well as
inclination has led me, for many years, into the abodes of poverty and
sorrow, and I have been amazed at the treatment which women receive
at the hands of those, who arrogate to themselves the epithet of
_protectors_. Brute force, the law of violence, rules to a great extent
in the poor man’s domicil; and woman is little more than his drudge.
They are less under the supervision of public opinion, less under the
restraints of education, and unaided or unbiased by the refinements of
polished society. Religion, wherever it exists, supplies the place of
all these; but the real cause of woman’s degradation and suffering in
married life is to be found in the erroneous notion of her inferiority
to man; and never will she be rightly regarded by herself, or others,
until this opinion, so derogatory to the wisdom and mercy of God, is
exploded, and woman arises in all the majesty of her womanhood, to
claim those rights which are inseparable from her existence as an
immortal, intelligent and responsible being.

Independent of the fact, that Jehovah could not, consistently with his
character as the King, the Lawgiver, and the Judge of his people, give
the reins of government over woman into the hands of man, I find that
all his commands, all his moral laws, are addressed to women as well as
to men. When he assembled Israel at the foot of Mount Sinai, to issue
his commandments, we may reasonably suppose he gave all the precepts,
which he considered necessary for the government of moral beings. Hence
we find that God says,--‘Honor thy father and thy mother,’ and he
enforces this command, by severe penalties upon those who transgress
it: ‘He that smiteth his father, or his mother, shall surely be put to
death’--‘He that curseth his father, or his mother, shall surely be put
to death’--Ex. 21: 15, 17. But in the decalogue, there is no direction
given to women to obey their husbands: both are commanded to have no
other God but Jehovah, and not to bow down, or serve any other. When
the Lord Jesus delivered his sermon on the Mount, full of the practical
precepts of religion, he did not issue any command to wives to obey
their husbands. When he is speaking on the subject of divorce, Mark 16:
11, 12, he places men and women on the same ground. And the Apostle,
1st Cor. 7: 12, 13, speaking of the duties of the Corinthian wives and
husbands, who had embraced Christianity, to their unconverted partners,
points out the same path to both, although our translators have made a
distinction. ‘Let him not put her away,’ 12--‘Let her not leave him,’
13--is precisely the same in the original. If man is constituted the
governor of woman, he must be her God; and the sentiment expressed to
me lately, by a married man, is perfectly correct: ‘In my opinion,’
said he, ‘the greatest excellence to which a married woman can attain,
is to worship her husband.’ He was a professor of religion--his wife a
lovely and intelligent woman. He only spoke out what thousands think
and act. Women are indebted to Milton for giving to this false notion,
‘confirmation strong as proof of holy writ.’ His Eve is embellished
with every personal grace, to gratify the eye of her admiring husband;
but he seems to have furnished the mother of mankind with just
intelligence enough to comprehend her supposed inferiority to Adam, and
to yield unresisting submission to her lord and master. Milton puts
into Eve’s mouth the following address to Adam:

  ‘My author and disposer, what thou bidst,
  Unargued I obey; so God ordains--
  God is thy law, thou mine: to know no more,
  Is woman’s happiest knowledge and her praise.’

This much admired sentimental nonsense is fraught with absurdity and
wickedness. If it were true, the commandment of Jehovah should have run
thus: Man shall have no other gods before ME, and woman shall have no
other gods before MAN.

The principal support of the dogma of woman’s inferiority, and
consequent submission to her husband, is found in some passages
of Paul’s epistles. I shall proceed to examine those passages,
premising 1st, that the antiquity of the opinions based on the false
construction of those passages, has no weight with me: they are the
opinions of interested judges, and I have no particular reverence
for them, _merely_ because they have been regarded with veneration
from generation to generation. So far from this being the case, I
examine any opinions of centuries standing, with as much freedom, and
investigate them with as much care, as if they were of yesterday.
I was educated to think for myself, and it is a privilege I shall
always claim to exercise. 2d. Notwithstanding my full belief that the
apostle Paul’s testimony, respecting himself, is true, ‘I was not a
whit behind the chiefest of the apostles,’ yet I believe his mind was
under the influence of Jewish prejudices respecting women, just as
Peter’s and the apostles were about the uncleanness of the Gentiles.
‘The Jews,’ says Clarke, ‘would not suffer a woman to read in the
synagogue, although a servant, or even a child, had this permission.’
When I see Paul shaving his head for a vow, and offering sacrifices,
and circumcising Timothy, to accommodate himself to the prepossessions
of his countrymen, I do not conceive that I derogate in the least from
his character as an inspired apostle, to suppose that he may have been
imbued with the prevalent prejudices against women.

In 1st Cor. 11: 3, after praising the Corinthian converts, because
they kept the ‘ordinances,’ or ‘traditions,’ as the margin reads,
the apostle says, ‘I would have you know, that the head of every
man is Christ, and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of
Christ is God.’ Eph. 5: 23, is a parallel passage. ‘For the husband
is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the Church.’
The apostle closes his remarks on this subject, by observing, ‘This
is a great mystery, but I speak concerning Christ and the Church.’ I
shall pass over this with simply remarking, that God and Christ are
one. ‘I and my Father are one,’ and there can be no inferiority where
there is no divisibility. The commentaries on this and similar texts,
afford a striking illustration of the ideas which men entertain of
their own superiority, I shall subjoin Henry’s remarks on 1st Cor. 11:
5, as a specimen: ‘To understand this text, it must be observed, that
it was a signification either of shame, or subjection, for persons to
be veiled, or covered in Eastern countries; contrary to the custom
of ours, where the being bare-headed betokens subjection, and being
covered superiority and dominion; and this will help us the better to
understand the reason on which he grounds his reprehension, ‘Every
man praying, &c. dishonoreth his head,’ i. e. Christ, the head of
every man, by appearing in a habit unsuitable to the rank in which
God had placed him. The woman, on the other hand, that prays, &c.
dishonoreth her head, i. e. the man. She appears in the dress of her
_superior_, and throws off the token of her subjection; she might with
equal decency cut her hair short, or cut it off, the common dress of
the man in that age. Another reason against this conduct was, that
the man is the image and glory of God, the representative of that
glorious dominion and headship which God has over the world. It is the
man who is set at the head of this lower creation, and therein bears
the resemblance of God. The woman, on the other hand, is the glory
of the man: she is his representative. Not but she has dominion over
the inferior creatures, and she is a partaker of human nature, and so
far is God’s representative too, but it is at second hand. She is the
image of God, inasmuch as she is the image of the man. The man was
first made, and made head of the creation here below, and therein the
image of the divine dominion; and the woman was made out of the man,
and shone with a _reflection of his glory_, being made superior to
the other creatures here below, but in subjection to her husband, and
deriving that _honor from him_, out of whom she was made. The woman was
made for the man to be his help meet, and not the man for the woman.
She was, naturally, therefore, made subject to him, because made for
him, for HIS USE AND HELP AND COMFORT.’

We see in the above quotation, what degrading views even good men
entertain of women. Pity the Psalmist had not thrown a little light on
this subject, when he was paraphrasing the account of man’s creation.
‘Thou hast made him a little lower than the angels, and hast crowned
him with glory and honor. Thou madest him to have dominion over the
works of thy hands; thou hast put all things under his feet.’ Surely
if woman had been placed below man, and was to shine only by a lustre
borrowed from him, we should have some clear evidence of it in the
sacred volume. Henry puts her exactly on a level with the beasts;
they were made for the use, help and comfort of man; and according to
this commentator, this was the whole end and design of the creation
of woman. The idea that man, as man is superior to woman, involves an
absurdity so gross, that I really wonder how any man of reflection can
receive it as of divine origin; and I can only account for it, by that
passion for supremacy, which characterizes man as a corrupt and fallen
creature. If it be true that he is more excellent than she, as man,
independent of his moral and intellectual powers, then every man is
superior by virtue of his manship, to every woman. The man who sinks
his moral capacities and spiritual powers in his sensual appetites,
is still, as a man, simply by the conformation of his body, a more
dignified being, than the woman whose intellectual powers are highly
cultivated, and whose approximation to the character of Jesus Christ is
exhibited in a blameless life and conversation.

But it is strenuously urged by those, who are anxious to maintain their
usurped authority, that wives are, in various passages of the New
Testament, commanded to obey their husbands. Let us examine these texts.

 Eph. 5: 22. ‘Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands as unto
 the Lord.’ ‘As the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be
 to their own husbands in every thing.’

 Col. 3: 18. Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is
 fit in the Lord.’

 1st Pet. 3: 2. ‘Likewise ye wives, be in subjection to your own
 husbands; that if any obey not the word, they may also without the
 word be won by the conversation of the wives.’

Accompanying all these directions to wives, are commands to husbands.

 Eph. 5: 25. ‘Husbands, love your wives even as Christ loved the
 Church, and gave himself for it.’ ‘So ought men to love their wives as
 their own bodies. He that loveth his wife, loveth himself.’

 Col. 3: 19. ‘Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against
 them.’

 1st Pet. 3: 7. ‘Likewise ye husbands, dwell with them according to
 knowledge, giving honor unto the wife as unto the weaker vessel, and
 as being heirs together of the grace of life.’

I may just remark, in relation to the expression ‘weaker vessel,’ that
the word in the original has no reference to intellect: it refers to
physical weakness merely.

The apostles were writing to Christian converts, and laying down
rules for their conduct towards their unconverted consorts. It no
doubt frequently happened, that a husband or a wife would embrace
Christianity, while their companions clung to heathenism, and husbands
might be tempted to dislike and despise those, who pertinaciously
adhered to their pagan superstitions. And wives who, when they were
pagans, submitted as a matter of course to their heathen husbands,
might be tempted knowing that they were superior as moral and religious
characters, to assert that superiority, by paying less deference to
them than heretofore. Let us examine the context of these passages,
and see what are the grounds of the directions here given to husbands
and wives. The whole epistle to the Ephesians breathes a spirit of
love. The apostle beseeches the converts to walk worthy of the vocation
wherewith they are called, with all lowliness and meekness, with
long suffering, forbearing one another in love. The verse preceding
5, 22, is ‘SUBMITTING YOURSELVES ONE TO ANOTHER IN THE FEAR OF GOD.’
Colossians 3, from 11 to 17, contains similar injunctions. The 17th
verse says, ‘Whatsoever ye do in word, or in deed, do all in the name
of the Lord Jesus.’ Peter, after drawing a most touching picture of
Christ’s sufferings for us, and reminding the Christians, that he
had left us an example that we should follow his steps, ‘who did no
sin, neither was guile found in his mouth,’ exhorts wives to be in
subjection, &c.

From an attentive consideration of these passages, and of those in
which the same words ‘submit,’ ‘subjection,’ are used, I cannot but
believe that the apostles designed to recommend to wives, as they
did to subjects and to servants, to carry out the holy principle
laid down by Jesus Christ, ‘Resist not evil.’ And this without in
the least acknowledging the right of the governors, masters, or
husbands, to exercise the authority they claimed. The recognition of
the existence of evils does not involve approbation of them. God tells
the Israelites, he gave them a king in his wrath, but nevertheless as
they chose to have a king, he laid down directions for the conduct of
that king, and had him anointed to reign over them. According to the
generally received meaning of the passages I have quoted, they directly
contravene the laws of God, as given in various parts of the Bible. Now
I must understand the sacred Scriptures as harmonizing with themselves,
or I cannot receive them as the word of God. The commentators on these
passages exalt man to the station of a Deity in relation to woman.
Clarke says, ‘As the Lord Christ is the head, or governor of the
church, and the head of the man, so is the man the head, or governor of
the woman. This is God’s ordinance, and should not be transgressed.
‘As unto the Lord.’ The word church seems necessarily to be understood
here: that is, act under the authority of your husbands, as the church
acts under the authority of Christ. As the church submits to the Lord,
so let wives submit to their husbands.’ Henry goes even further--‘For
the husband is the head of the wife. The metaphor is taken from the
head in the natural body, which being the seat of reason, of wisdom and
of knowledge, and the fountain of sense and motion, is more excellent
than the rest of the body.’ Now if God ordained man the governor of
woman, he must be able to save her, and to answer in her stead for all
those sins which she commits by his direction. Awful responsibility.
Do husbands feel able and willing to bear it? And what becomes of the
solemn affirmation of Jehovah? ‘Hear this, all ye people, give ear all
ye inhabitants of the world, both low and high, rich and poor.’ ‘None
can by any means redeem his brother, or give to God a ransom for him,
for the redemption of the soul is precious, and man cannot accomplish
it.’--_French Bible._

                                       Thine in the bonds of womanhood,

                                                       SARAH M. GRIMKE.



                              LETTER XIV.

                          MINISTRY OF WOMEN.


                                             _Brookline, 9th Mo. 1837._

MY DEAR SISTER,--According to the principle which I have laid
down, that man and woman were created equal, and endowed by their
beneficent Creator with the same intellectual powers and the same moral
responsibilities, and that consequently whatever is _morally_ right
for a man to do, is _morally_ right for a woman to do, it follows as
a necessary corollary, that if it is the duty of man to preach the
unsearchable riches of Christ, it is the duty also of woman.

I am aware, that I have the prejudices of education and custom to
combat, both in my own and the other sex, as well as ‘the traditions
of men,’ which are taught for the commandments of God. I feel that I
have no sectarian views to advance; for although among the Quakers,
Methodists, and Christians, women are permitted to preach the glad
tidings of peace and salvation, yet I know of no religious body, who
entertain the Scripture doctrine of the perfect equality of man and
woman, which is the fundamental principle of my argument in favor of
the ministry of women. I wish simply to throw my views before thee.
If they are based on the immutable foundation of truth, they cannot
be overthrown by unkind insinuations, bitter sarcasms, unchristian
imputations, or contemptuous ridicule. These are weapons which are
unworthy of a good cause. If I am mistaken, as truth only can prevail,
my supposed errors will soon vanish before her beams; but I am
persuaded that woman is not filling the high and holy station which God
allotted to her, and that in consequence of her having been driven from
her ‘appropriate sphere,’ both herself and her brethren have suffered
an infinity of evils.

Before I proceed to prove, that woman is bound to preach the gospel,
I will examine the ministry under the Old Testament dispensation.
Those who were called to this office were known under various names.
Enoch, who prophesied, is designated as walking with God. Noah is
called a preacher of righteousness. They were denominated men of God,
seers, prophets, but they all had the same great work to perform, viz.
to turn sinners from the error of their ways. This ministry existed
previous to the institution of the Jewish priesthood, and continued
after its abolition. _It has nothing to do with the priesthood._ It
was rarely, as far as the Bible informs us, exercised by those of the
tribe of Levi, and was common to all the people, women as well as
men. It differed essentially from the priesthood, because there was
no compensation received for calling the people to repentance. Such a
thing as paying a prophet for preaching the truth of God is not even
mentioned. They were called of Jehovah to go forth in his name, one
from his plough, another from gathering of sycamore fruit, &c. &c. Let
us for a moment imagine Jeremiah, when God says to him, ‘Gird up thy
loins, and arise and speak unto the people all that I command thee,’
replying to Jehovah, ‘I will preach repentance to the people, if they
will give me gold, but if they will not pay me for the truth, then let
them perish in their sins.’ Now, this is virtually the language of the
ministers of the present day; and I believe the secret of the exclusion
of women from the ministerial office is, that that office has been
converted into one of emolument, of honor, and of power. Any attentive
observer cannot fail to perceive, that as far as possible, all such
offices are reserved by men for themselves.

The common error that Christian ministers are the successors of the
priests, is founded in mistake. In the particular directions given
to Moses to consecrate Aaron and his sons to the office of the
priesthood, their duties are clearly defined: see Ex. 28th, 29th and
30th chap. There is no commission to Aaron to preach to the people; his
business was to offer sacrifice. Now why were sacrifices instituted?
They were types of that one great sacrifice, which in the fulness of
time was offered up through the eternal Spirit without spot to God.
Christ assumed the office of priest; he ‘offered himself,’ and by so
doing, abolished forever the order of the priesthood, as well as the
sacrifices which the priests were ordained to offer.[3]

But it may be inquired, whether the priests were not to teach the
people. As far as I can discover from the Bible, they were simply
commanded to read the law to the people. There was no other copy that
we know of, until the time of the kings, who were to write out a copy
for their own use. As it was deposited in the ark, the priests were
required, ‘When all Israel is come to appear before the Lord thy God in
the place which he shall choose, thou shalt read this law before all
Israel in their hearing. Gather the people together, men, women, and
children, that they may hear,’ Deut. 31: 9-33. See also Lev. 10: 11,
Deut. 33: 10, 2d Chr. 17: 7-9, and numerous other passages. When God is
enumerating the means he has used to call his people to repentance, he
never, as far as I can discover, speaks of sending his priests to warn
them; but in various passages we find language similar to this: ‘Since
the day that your fathers came forth out of the land of Egypt unto this
day, I have even sent unto you all my servants, the PROPHETS, daily
rising up early and sending them. Yet they hearkened not unto me, nor
inclined their ear, but hardened their neck; they did worse than their
fathers.’ Jer. 7: 25, 26. See also, 25: 4. 2 Chr. 36: 15. and parallel
passages. God says, Is. 9: 15, 16. ‘The prophet that teacheth lies,
he is the tail; for the leaders of this people cause them to err.’
The distinction between priests and prophets is evident from their
being mentioned as two classes. ‘The prophets prophesy falsely, and
the priests bear rule by their means,’ Jer. 5: 31. See also, Ch. 2: 8.
8:1-10. and many others.

That women were called to the prophetic office, I believe is
universally admitted. Miriam, Deborah and Huldah were prophetesses. The
judgments of the Lord are denounced by Ezekiel on false prophetesses,
as well as false prophets. And if Christian ministers are, as I
apprehend, successors of the prophets, and not of the priests, then of
course, women are now called to that office as well as men, because God
has no where withdrawn from them the privilege of doing what is the
great business of preachers, viz. to point the penitent sinner to the
Redeemer. ‘Behold the Lamb of God, which taketh away the sins of the
world.’

It is often triumphantly inquired, why, if men and women are on an
equality, are not women as conspicuous in the Bible as men? I do not
intend to assign a reason, but I think one may readily be found in
the fact, that from the days of Eve to the present time, the aim of
man has been to crush her. He has accomplished this work in various
ways; sometimes by brute force, sometimes by making her subservient to
his worst passions, sometimes by treating her as a doll, and while he
excluded from her mind the light of knowledge, decked her person with
gewgaws and frippery which he scorned for himself, thus endeavoring to
render her like unto a painted sepulchre.

It is truly marvellous that any woman can rise above the pressure of
circumstances which combine to crush her. Nothing can strengthen her
to do this in the character of a preacher of righteousness, but a
call from Jehovah himself. And when the voice of God penetrates the
deep recesses of her heart, and commands her to go and cry in the
ears of the people, she is ready to exclaim, ‘Ah, Lord God, behold
I cannot speak, for I am a woman.’ I have known women in different
religious societies, who have felt like the prophet. ‘His word was in
my heart as a burning fire shut up in my bones, and I was weary with
forbearing.’ But they have not dared to open their lips, and have
endured all the intensity of suffering, produced by disobedience to
God, rather than encounter heartless ridicule and injurious suspicions.
I rejoice that we have been the oppressed, rather than the oppressors.
God thus prepared his people for deliverance from outward bondage;
and I hope our sorrows have prepared us to fulfil our high and holy
duties, whether public or private, with humility and meekness; and that
suffering has imparted fortitude to endure trials, which assuredly
await us in the attempt to sunder those chains with which man has bound
us, galling to the spirit, though unseen by the eye.

Surely there is nothing either astonishing or novel in the gifts of
the Spirit being bestowed on woman: nothing astonishing, because there
is no respect of persons with God; the soul of the woman in his sight
is as the soul of the man, and both are alike capable of the influence
of the Holy Spirit. Nothing novel, because, as has been already shown,
in the sacred records there are found examples of women, as well as of
men, exercising the gift of prophecy.

We attach to the word prophecy, the exclusive meaning of foretelling
future events, but this is certainly a mistake; for the apostle Paul
defines it to be ‘speaking to edification, exhortation and comfort.’
And there appears no possible reason, why women should not do this as
well as men. At the time that the Bible was translated into English,
the meaning of the word prophecy, was delivering a message from God,
whether it was to predict future events, or to warn the people of the
consequences of sin. Governor Winthrop, of Massachusetts, mentions in a
letter, that the minister being absent, he went to, ---- to prophecy to
the people.

Before I proceed to prove that women, under the Christian dispensation,
were anointed of the Holy Ghost to preach, or prophecy, I will mention
Anna, the (last) prophetess under the Jewish dispensation. ‘She
departed not from the temple, but served God with fasting and prayers
night and day.’ And coming into the temple, while Simeon was yet
speaking to Mary, with the infant Savior in his arms, ‘spake of Christ
to all them that looked for redemption in Jerusalem.’ Blackwall, a
learned English critic, in his work entitled, ‘Sacred Classics,’ says,
in reference to this passage, Luke 2: 37--‘According to the _original_
reading, the sense will be, that the devout Anna, who attended in the
temple, both night and day, spoke of the Messiah to all the inhabitants
of that city, who constantly worshipped there, and who prepared
themselves for the worthy reception of that divine person, whom they
expected at this time. And ’tis certain, that other devout Jews, not
inhabitants of Jerusalem, frequently repaired to the temple-worship,
and might, at this remarkable time, and several others, hear this
admirable woman discourse upon the blessed advent of the Redeemer.
A various reading has Israel instead of Jerusalem, which expresses
that religious Jews, from distant places, came thither to divine
offices, and would with high pleasure hear the discourses of this great
prophetess, so famed for her extraordinary piety and valuable talents,
upon the most important and desirable subject.’

I shall now examine the testimony of the Bible on this point, after
the ascension of our Lord, beginning with the glorious effusion of the
Holy Spirit on the day of Pentecost. I presume it will not be denied,
that women, as well as men, were at that time filled with the Holy
Ghost, because it is expressly stated, that women were among those who
continued in prayer and supplication, waiting for the fulfilment of
the promise, that they should be endued with power from on high. ‘When
the day of Pentecost was fully come, they were ALL with one accord
in one place. And there appeared unto them cloven tongues like as of
fire, and it sat upon each of them; and they were all filled with the
Holy Ghost, and began to speak with other tongues as the Spirit gave
them utterance.’ Peter says, in reference to this miracle, ‘This is
that which was spoken by the prophet Joel. And it shall come to pass
in the last days, said God, I will pour out my Spirit upon all flesh;
and your sons and your daughters shall prophesy--and on my servants
and on my hand-maidens, I will pour out in those days of my Spirit,
and they shall prophesy.’ There is not the least intimation that this
was a spasmodic influence which was soon to cease. The men and women
are classed together; and if the power to preach the gospel was a
supernatural and short-lived impulse in women, then it was equally
so in men. But we are told, those were the days of miracles. I grant
it; but the men, equally with the women, were the subjects of this
marvellous fulfilment of prophecy, and of course, if women have lost
the gift of prophesying, so have men. We are also gravely told, that
if a woman pretends to inspiration, and thereupon grounds the right
to plead the cause of a crucified Redeemer in public, she will be
believed when she shows credentials from heaven, i. e. when she works
a miracle. I reply, if this be necessary to prove her right to preach
the gospel, then I demand of my brethren to show me their credentials;
else I cannot receive their ministry, by their own showing. John Newton
has justly said, that no power but that which created a world, can
make a minister of the gospel; and man may task his ingenuity to the
utmost, to prove that this power is not exercised on women as well as
men. He cannot do it until he has first disclaimed that simple, but all
comprehensive truth, ‘in Christ Jesus there is neither male nor female.’

Women then, according to the Bible, were, under the New Testament
dispensation, as well as the Old, the recipients of the gift of
prophecy. That this is no sectarian view may be proved by the following
extracts. The first I shall offer is from Stratton’s ‘Book of the
Priesthood.’

 ‘While they were assembled in the upper room to wait for the blessing,
 in number about one hundred and twenty, they received the miraculous
 gifts of the Holy Spirit’s grace; they became the channels through
 which its more ordinary, but not less saving streams flowed to three
 thousand persons in one day. The whole company of the assembled
 disciples, male and female, young and old, were all filled with the
 Holy Ghost, and began to speak with other tongues as the Spirit gave
 them utterance. They all contributed in producing that impression upon
 the assembled multitude, which Peter was instrumental in advancing to
 its decisive results.’

Scott, in his commentary on this passage, says--

 ‘At the same time, there appeared the form of tongues divided at the
 tip and resembling fire; one of which rested on each of the whole
 company.’ ‘They sat on every one present, as the original determines.
 At the time of these extraordinary appearances, the whole company were
 abundantly replenished with the gifts and graces of the Holy Spirit,
 so that they began to speak with other tongues.’

Henry in his notes confirms this:

 ‘It seems evident to me that not the twelve apostles only, but all the
 one hundred and twenty disciples were filled with the Holy Ghost alike
 at this time,--all the seventy disciples, who were apostolical men and
 employed in the same work, and all the rest too that were to preach
 the gospel, for it is said expressly, Eph. 4: 8-12: ‘When Christ
 ascended up on high, (which refers to this) he gave gifts unto men.’
 The all here must refer to the all that were together.’

I need hardly remark that man is a generic term, including both sexes.

Let us now examine whether women actually exercised the office of
minister, under the gospel dispensation. Philip had four daughters, who
prophesied or preached. Paul calls Priscilla, as well as Aquila, his
helpers; or, as in the Greek, his fellow laborers[4] in Christ Jesus.
Divers other passages might be adduced to prove that women continued to
be preachers, and that _many_ of them filled this dignified station.

We learn also from ecclesiastical history, that female ministers
suffered martyrdom in the early ages of the Christian church. In
ancient councils, mention is made of deaconesses; and in an edition of
the New Testament, printed in 1574, a woman is spoken of as minister
of a church. The same word, which, in our common translation, is now
rendered a servant of the church, in speaking of Phebe, Rom. 16: 1, is
rendered minister, Eph. 6: 21, when applied to Tychicus. A minister,
with whom I had lately the pleasure of conversing, remarked, ‘My rule
is to expound scripture by scripture, and I cannot deny the ministry of
women, because the apostle says, ‘help those women who labored with me
IN THE GOSPEL.’ He certainly meant something more than pouring out tea
for him.’

In the 11th Ch. of 1 Cor., Paul gives directions to women and men how
they should appear when they prophesy, or pray in public assemblies.
It is evident that the design of the apostle, in this and the three
succeeding chapters, is to rectify certain abuses which had crept into
the Christian church. He therefore admonishes women to pray with their
heads covered, because, according to the fashion of that day, it was
considered immodest and immoral to do otherwise. He says, ‘that were
all one as if she were shaven;’ and shaving the head was a disgraceful
punishment that was inflicted on women of bad character.

 ‘These things,’ says Scott, ‘the apostle stated as decent and proper,
 but if any of the Corinthian teachers inclined to excite contention
 about them, he would only add, v. 16, that he and his brethren knew of
 no such custom as prevailed among them, nor was there any such in the
 churches of God which had been planted by the other apostles.’

John Locke, whilst engaged in writing his notes on the Epistles of St.
Paul, was at a meeting where two women preached. After hearing them,
he became convinced of their commission to publish the gospel, and
thereupon altered his notes on the 11th Ch. 1 Cor. in favor of women’s
preaching. He says,--

 ‘This about women seeming as difficult a passage as most in St.
 Paul’s Epistles, I crave leave to premise some few considerations.
 It is plain that this covering the head in women is restrained to
 some peculiar actions which they performed in the assembly, expressed
 by the words praying, prophesying, which, whatever they signify,
 must have the same meaning applied to women in the 5th verse, that
 they have when applied to men in the 4th, &c. The next thing to
 be considered is, what is here to be understood by praying and
 prophesying. And that seems to me the performing of some public action
 in the assembly, by some one person which was for that time peculiar
 to that person, and whilst it lasted, the rest of the assembly
 silently assisted. As to prophesying, the apostle in express words
 tells us, Ch. 14: 3, 12, that it was speaking in the assembly. The
 same is evident as to praying, that the apostle means by it publicly
 with an audible voice, ch. 14: 19.’

In a letter to these two women, Rebecca Collier and Rachel Bracken,
which accompanied a little testimony of his regard, he says,

 ‘I admire no converse like that of Christian freedom; and I fear no
 bondage like that of pride and prejudice. I now see that acquaintance
 by sight cannot reach the height of enjoyment, which acquaintance
 by knowledge arrives unto. Outward hearing may misguide us, but
 internal knowledge cannot err.’ ‘Women, indeed, had the honor of
 first publishing the resurrection of the God of love--why not again
 the resurrection of the spirit of love? And let all the disciples of
 Christ rejoice therein, as doth your partner, John Locke.’

See ‘The Friend,’ a periodical published in Philadelphia.

Adam Clarke’s comment on 1 Cor. 11: 5, is similar to Locke’s:

 ‘Whatever be the meaning of praying and prophesying in respect to the
 man, they have precisely the same meaning in respect to the woman.
 So that some women at least, as well as some men, might speak to
 others to edification and exhortation and comfort. And this kind of
 prophesying, or teaching, was predicted by Joel 2: 28, and referred
 to by Peter; and had there not been such gifts bestowed on women, the
 prophesy could not have had its fulfilment.’

In the autobiography of Adam Clarke, there is an interesting account
of his hearing Mary Sewall and another female minister preach, and he
acknowledges that such was the power accompanying their ministry, that
though he had been prejudiced against women’s preaching, he could not
but confess that these women were anointed for the office.

But there are certain passages in the Epistles of St. Paul, which seem
to be of doubtful interpretation; at which we cannot much marvel,
seeing that his brother Peter says, there are some things in them hard
to be understood. Most commentators, having their minds preoccupied
with the prejudices of education, afford little aid; they rather tend
to darken the text by the multitude of words. One of these passages
occurs in 1 Cor. 14. I have already remarked, that this chapter, with
several of the preceding, was evidently designed to correct abuses
which had crept into the assemblies of Christians in Corinth. Hence
we find that the men were commanded to be silent, as well as the
women, when they were guilty of any thing which deserved reprehension.
The apostle says, ‘If there be no interpreter, let him keep silence
in the church.’ The men were doubtless in the practice of speaking
in unknown tongues, when there was no interpreter present; and Paul
reproves them, because this kind of preaching conveyed no instruction
to the people. Again he says, ‘If any thing be revealed to another that
sitteth by, let the first hold his peace.’ We may infer from this,
that two men sometimes attempted to speak at the same time, and the
apostle rebukes them, and adds, ‘Ye may ALL prophesy one by one, for
God is not the author of confusion, but of peace.’ He then proceeds to
notice the disorderly conduct of the women, who were guilty of other
improprieties. They were probably in the habit of asking questions, on
any points of doctrine which they wished more thoroughly explained.
This custom was common among the men in the Jewish synagogues, after
the pattern of which, the meetings of the early Christians were in
all probability conducted. And the Christian women, presuming on the
liberty which they enjoyed under the new religion, interrupted the
assembly, by asking questions. The apostle disapproved of this, because
it disturbed the solemnity of the meeting: he therefore admonishes the
women to keep silence in the churches. That the apostle did not allude
to preaching is manifest, because he tells them, ‘If they will _learn_
any thing, let them ask their husbands at home.’ Now a person endowed
with a gift in the ministry, does not ask questions in the public
exercise of that gift, for the purpose of gaining information: she is
instructing others. Moreover, the apostle, in closing his remarks on
this subject, says, ‘Wherefore, brethren, (a generic term, applying
equally to men and women,) covet to prophesy, and forbid not to speak
with tongues. Let all things be done decently and in order.’

Clarke, on the passage, ‘Let women keep silence in the churches,’ says:

 ‘This was a Jewish ordinance. Women were not permitted to teach in the
 assemblies, or even to ask questions. The rabbins taught that a woman
 should know nothing but the use of her distaff; and the saying of
 Rabbi Eliezer is worthy of remark and execration: ‘Let the words of
 the law be burned, rather than that they should be delivered by women.’

Are there not many of our Christian brethren, whose hostility to the
ministry of women is as bitter as was that of Rabbi Eliezer, and who
would rather let souls perish, than that the truths of the gospel
should be delivered by women?

 ‘This,’ says Clarke, ‘was their condition till the time of the gospel,
 when, according to the prediction of Joel, the Spirit of God was to be
 poured out on the women as well as the men, that they might prophesy,
 that is, teach. And that they did prophesy, or teach, is evident from
 what the apostle says, ch. 11: 5, where he lays down rules to regulate
 this part of their conduct while ministering in the church. But does
 not what the apostle says here, let your women keep silence in the
 churches, contradict that statement, and show that the words in ch.
 11, should be understood in another sense? for here it is expressly
 said, that they should keep silence in the churches, for it was not
 permitted to a woman to speak. Both places seem perfectly consistent.
 It is evident from the context, that the apostle refers here to asking
 questions, and what we call dictating in the assemblies.’

The other passage on which the opinion, that women are not called to
the ministry, is founded, is 1 Tim. 2d ch. The apostle speaks of the
duty of prayer and supplication, mentions his own ordination as a
preacher, and then adds, ‘I will, therefore, that men pray everywhere,
lifting up holy hands, without wrath and doubting. In like manner
also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel,’ &c. I shall here
premise, that as the punctuation and division into chapters and verses
is no part of the original arrangement, they cannot determine the sense
of a passage. Indeed, every attentive reader of the Bible must observe,
that the injudicious separation of sentences often destroys their
meaning and their beauty. Joseph John Gurney, whose skill as a biblical
critic is well known in England, commenting on this passage, says,

 ‘It is worded in a manner somewhat obscure; but appears to be best
 construed according to the opinion of various commentators (See Pool’s
 Synopsis) as conveying an injunction, that women as well as men should
 pray everywhere, lifting up holy hands without wrath and doubting.
 1 Tim. 2: 8, 9. ‘I will therefore that men pray everywhere, &c.;
 likewise also the women in a modest dress.’ (Compare 1 Cor. 11: 5.) ‘I
 would have them adorn themselves with shamefacedness and sobriety.’’

I have no doubt this is the true meaning of the text, and that the
translators would never have thought of altering it had they not been
under the influence of educational prejudice. The apostle proceeds
to exhort the women, who thus publicly made intercession to God, not
to adorn themselves with braided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly
array, but (which becometh women professing godliness) with good
works.’ The word in this verse translated ‘professing,’ would be more
properly rendered preaching godliness, or enjoining piety to the gods,
or conducting public worship. After describing the duty of female
ministers about their apparel, the apostle proceeds to correct some
improprieties which probably prevailed in the Ephesian church, similar
to those which he had reproved among the Corinthian converts. He says,
‘Let the women LEARN in silence with all subjection; but I suffer not
a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in
silence,’ or quietness. Here again it is evident that the women, of
whom he was speaking, were admonished to learn in silence, which could
not refer to their public ministrations to others. The verb to teach,
verse 12, is one of very general import, and may in this place more
properly be rendered dictate. It is highly probable that women who had
long been in bondage, when set free by Christianity from the restraints
imposed upon them by Jewish traditions and heathen customs, run into
an extreme in their public assemblies, and interrupted the religious
services by frequent interrogations, which they could have had answered
as satisfactorily at home.

On a candid examination and comparison of the passages which I have
endeavored to explain, viz., 1 Cor. chaps. 11 and 14, and 1 Tim. 2,
8-12. I think we must be compelled to adopt one of two conclusions;
either that the apostle grossly contradicts himself on a subject of
great practical importance, and that the fulfilment of the prophecy
of Joel was a shameful infringement of decency and order; or that
the directions given to women, not to speak, or to teach in the
congregations, had reference to some local and peculiar customs, which
were then common in religious assemblies, and which the apostle thought
inconsistent with the purpose for which they were met together. No
one, I suppose, will hesitate which of these two conclusions to adopt.
The subject is one of vital importance. That it may claim the calm and
prayerful attention of Christians, is the desire of

                                       Thine in the bonds of womanhood,

                                                       SARAH M. GRIMKE.


FOOTNOTES:

[3] I cannot enter fully into this part of my subject. It is, however,
one of great importance, and I recommend those who wish to examine it,
to read ‘The Book of the Priesthood,’ by an English Dissenter, and
Beverly’s ‘View of the Present State of the Visible Church of Christ.’
They are both masterly productions.

[4] Rom. 16: 3, compare Gr. text of v. 21, 2. Cor. 8: 23; Phil. 2: 25;
1 Thes. 3: 2.



                              LETTER XV.

              MAN EQUALLY GUILTY WITH WOMAN IN THE FALL.


                                       _Uxbridge, 10th Mo. 20th, 1837._

MY DEAR SISTER,--It is said that ‘modern Jewish women light a lamp
every Friday evening, half an hour before sunset, which is the
beginning of their Sabbath, in remembrance of their original mother,
who first extinguished the lamp of righteousness,--to remind them of
their obligation to rekindle it.’ I am one of those who always admit,
to its fullest extent, the popular charge, that woman brought sin into
the world. I accept it as a powerful reason, why woman is bound to
labor with double diligence, for the regeneration of that world she has
been instrumental in ruining.

But, although I do not repel the imputation, I shall notice some
passages in the sacred Scriptures, where this transaction is mentioned,
which prove, I think, the identity and equality of man and woman, and
that there is no difference in their guilt in the view of that God who
searcheth the heart and trieth the reins of the children of men. In Is.
43: 27, we find the following passage--‘Thy first father hath sinned,
and thy teachers have transgressed against me’--which is synonymous
with Rom. 5: 12. ‘Wherefore, as by ONE MAN sin entered into the world,
and death by sin, &c.’ Here man and woman are included under one term,
and no distinction is made in their criminality. The circumstances of
the fall are again referred to in 2 Cor. 11: 3--‘But I fear lest, by
any means, as the serpent _beguiled_ Eve through his subtility, so
your mind should be beguiled from the simplicity that is in Christ.’
Again, 1st Tim. 2: 14--‘Adam _was not deceived_; but the woman being
_deceived_, was in the transgression.’ Now, whether the fact, that Eve
was beguiled and deceived, is a proof that her crime was of deeper
dye than Adam’s, who was not deceived, but was fully aware of the
consequences of sharing in her transgression, I shall leave the candid
reader to determine.

My present object is to show, that, as woman is charged with all the
sin that exists in the world, it is her solemn duty to labor for its
extinction; and that this she can never do effectually and extensively,
until her mind is disenthralled of those shackles which have been
riveted upon her by a ‘_corrupt public opinion, and a perverted
interpretation of the holy Scriptures_.’ Woman must feel that she is
the equal, and is designed to be the fellow laborer of her brother, or
she will be studying to find out the _imaginary_ line which separates
the sexes, and divides the duties of men and women into two distinct
classes, a separation not even hinted at in the Bible, where we are
expressly told, ‘there is neither male nor female, for ye are all one
in Christ Jesus.’

My views on this subject are so much better embodied in the language
of a living author than I can express them, that I quote the passage
entire: ‘Woman’s rights and man’s rights are _both_ contained in
the _same_ charter, and held by the _same_ tenure. _All rights_
spring out of the _moral_ nature: they are both the root and the
offspring of _responsibilities_. The physical constitution is the mere
_instrument_ of the _moral_ nature; sex is a mere _incident_ of this
constitution, a provision necessary to this _form_ of existence; its
_only_ design, not to give, nor to take away, nor in any respect to
modify or even _touch_ rights or responsibilities in any sense, except
so far as the peculiar offices of each sex may afford less or more
_opportunity_ and ability for the exercise of rights, and the discharge
of responsibilities; but merely to continue and enlarge the human
department of God’s government. Consequently, I know nothing of _man’s_
rights, or _woman’s_ rights; _human_ rights are all that I recognise.
The doctrine, that the _sex of the body_ presides over and administers
upon the rights and responsibilities of the moral, immortal nature, is
to my mind a doctrine kindred to blasphemy, _when seen in its intrinsic
nature_. It breaks up utterly the _relations_ of the two natures, and
reverses their functions; exalting the animal nature into a monarch,
and humbling the moral into a slave; making the former a proprietor,
and the latter its property.’

To perform our duties, we must comprehend our rights and
responsibilities; and it is because we do not understand, that we now
fall so far short in the discharge of our obligations. Unaccustomed to
think for ourselves, and to search the sacred volume, to see how far we
are living up to the design of Jehovah in our creation, we have rested
satisfied with the sphere marked out for us by man, never detecting
the fallacy of that reasoning which forbids woman to exercise some
of her noblest faculties, and stamps with the reproach of indelicacy
those actions by which women were formerly dignified and exalted in the
church.

I should not mention this subject again, if it were not to point out to
my sisters what seems to me an irresistible conclusion from the literal
interpretation of St. Paul, without reference to the context, and the
peculiar circumstances and abuses which drew forth the expressions,
‘I suffer not a woman to teach’--‘Let your women keep silence in the
church,’ i. e. congregation. It is manifest, that if the apostle meant
what his words imply, when taken in the strictest sense, then women
have no right to _teach_ Sabbath or day schools, or to open their lips
to sing in the assemblies of the people; yet young and delicate women
are engaged in all these offices; they are expressly trained to exhibit
themselves, and raise their voices to a high pitch in the choirs of our
places of worship. I do not intend to sit in judgment on my sisters for
doing these things; I only want them to see, that they are as really
infringing a _supposed_ divine command, by instructing their pupils in
the Sabbath or day schools, and by singing in the congregation, as if
they were engaged in preaching the unsearchable riches of Christ to a
lost and perishing world. Why, then, are we permitted to break this
injunction in some points, and so sedulously warned not to overstep
the bounds set for us by our _brethren_ in another? Simply, as I
believe, because in the one case we subserve _their_ views and _their_
interests, and act _in subordination to them_; whilst in the other, we
come in contact with their interests, and claim to be on an equality
with them in the highest and most important trust ever committed to
man, namely, the ministry of the word. It is manifest, that if women
were permitted to be ministers of the gospel, as they unquestionably
were in the primitive ages of the Christian church, it would interfere
materially with the present organized system of spiritual power and
ecclesiastical authority, which is now vested solely in the hands of
men. It would either show that all the paraphernalia of theological
seminaries, &c. &c. to prepare men to become evangelists, is wholly
unnecessary, or it would create a necessity for similar institutions
in order to prepare women for the same office; and this would be
an encroachment on that learning, which our hind brethren have
so ungenerously monopolized. I do not ask any one to believe my
statements, or adopt my conclusions, because they are mine; but I do
earnestly entreat my sisters to lay aside their prejudices, and examine
these subjects _for themselves_, regardless of the ‘traditions of
men,’ because they are intimately connected with their duty and their
usefulness in the present important crisis.

All who know any thing of the present system of benevolent and
religious operations, know that women are performing an important
part in them, in _subserviency to men_, who guide our labors, and are
often the recipients of those benefits of education we toil to confer,
and which we rejoice they can enjoy, although it is their mandate
which deprives us of the same advantages. Now, whether our brethren
have defrauded us intentionally, or unintentionally, the wrong we
suffer is equally the same. For years, they have been spurring us up
to the performance of our duties. The immense usefulness and the vast
influence of woman have been eulogized and called into exercise, and
many a blessing has been lavished upon us, and many a prayer put up
for us, because we have labored by day and by night to clothe and feed
and educate young men, whilst our own bodies sometimes suffer for
want of comfortable garments, and our minds are left in almost utter
destitution of that improvement which we are toiling to bestow upon the
brethren.

  ‘Full many a gem of purest ray serene,
    The dark unfathomed caves of ocean bear;
  Full many a flower is born to blush unseen
    And waste its sweetness on the desert air.’

If the sewing societies, the avails of whose industry are now expended
in supporting and educating young men for the ministry, were to
withdraw their contributions to these objects, and give them where they
are _more needed_, to the advancement of their _own sex_ in useful
learning, the next generation might furnish sufficient proof, that
in intelligence and ability to master the whole circle of sciences,
woman is not inferior to man; and instead of a sensible woman being
regarded as she now is, is a lusus naturæ, they would be quite as
common as sensible men. I confess, considering the high claim men in
this country make to great politeness and deference to women, it does
seem a little extraordinary that we should be urged to work for the
brethren. I should suppose it would be more in character with ‘the
generous promptings of chivalry, and the poetry of romantic gallantry,’
for which Catherine E. Beecher gives them credit, for them to form
societies to educate their sisters, seeing our inferior capacities
require more cultivation to bring them into use, and qualify us to be
helps meet for them. However, though I think this would be but a just
return for all our past kindnesses in this way, I should be willing
to balance our accounts, and begin a new course. Henceforth, let the
benefit be reciprocated, or else let each sex provide for the education
of their own poor, whose talents ought to be rescued from the oblivion
of ignorance. Sure I am, the young men who are now benefitted by the
handy work of their sisters, will not be less honorable if they occupy
half their time in earning enough to pay for their own education,
instead of depending on the industry of women, who not unfrequently
deprive themselves of the means of purchasing valuable books which
might enlarge their stock of useful knowledge, and perhaps prove a
blessing to the family by furnishing them with instructive reading. If
the minds of women were enlightened and improved, the domestic circle
would be more frequently refreshed by intelligent conversation, a means
of edification now deplorably neglected, for want of that cultivation
which these intellectual advantages would confer.


                           DUTIES OF WOMEN.

One of the duties which devolve upon women in the present interesting
crisis, is to prepare themselves for more extensive usefulness, by
making use of those religious and literary privileges and advantages
that are within their reach, if they will only stretch out their hands
and possess them. By doing this, they will become better acquainted
with their rights as moral beings, and with their responsibilities
growing out of those rights: they will regard themselves, as they
really are, FREE AGENTS, immortal beings, amenable to no tribunal but
that of Jehovah, and bound not to submit to any restriction imposed
for selfish purposes, or to gratify that love of power which has
reigned in the heart of man from Adam down to the present time. In
contemplating the great moral reformations of the day, and the part
which they are bound to take in them, instead of puzzling themselves
with the harassing, because unnecessary inquiry, how far they may go
without overstepping the bounds of propriety, which separate male and
female duties, they will only inquire, ‘Lord, what wilt thou have us to
do?’ They will be enabled to see the simple truth, that God has made no
distinction between men and women as moral beings; that the distinction
now so much insisted upon between male and female virtues is as absurd
as it is unscriptural, and has been the fruitful source of much
mischief--granting to man a license for the exhibition of brute force
and conflict on the battle field; for sternness, selfishness, and the
exercise of irresponsible power in the circle of home--and to woman a
permit to rest on an arm of flesh, and to regard modesty and delicacy,
and all the kindred virtues, as peculiarly appropriate to her. Now to
me it is perfectly clear, that WHATSOEVER IT IS MORALLY RIGHT FOR A
MAN TO DO, IT IS MORALLY RIGHT FOR A WOMAN TO DO; and that confusion
must exist in the moral world, until women takes her stand on the same
platform with man, and feels that she is clothed by her Maker with the
_same rights_, and, of course, that upon her devolve the _same duties_.

It is not my intention, nor indeed do I think it is in my power, to
point out the precise duties of women. To him who still teacheth by
his Holy Spirit as never man taught, I refer my beloved sisters. There
is a vast field of usefulness before them. The signs of the times give
portentous evidence, that a day of deep trial is approaching; and I
urge them, by every consideration of a Savior’s dying love, by the
millions of heathen in our midst, by the sufferings of woman in almost
every portion of the world, by the fearful ravages which slavery,
intemperance, licentiousness and other iniquities are making of the
happiness of our fellow creatures, to come to the rescue of a ruined
world, and to be found co-workers with Jesus Christ.

  ‘Ho! to the rescue, ho!
    Up every one that feels--
  ’Tis a sad and fearful cry of woe
    From a guilty world that steals.
  Hark! hark! how the horror rolls,
    Whence can this anguish be?
  ’Tis the groan of a trammel’d people’s souls,
    _Now bursting_ to be free.’

And here, with all due deference for the office of the ministry, which
I believe was established by Jehovah himself, and designed by Him to
be the means of spreading light and salvation through a crucified
Savior to the ends of the earth, I would entreat my sisters not to
_compel_ the ministers of the present day to give their names to great
moral reformations. The practice of making ministers life members, or
officers of societies, when their hearts have not been touched with a
live coal from the altar, and animated with love for the work we are
engaged in, is highly injurious to them, as well as to the cause. They
often satisfy their consciences in this way, without doing anything to
promote the anti-slavery, or temperance, or other reformations; and we
please ourselves with the idea, that we have done something to forward
the cause of Christ, when, in effect, we have been sewing pillows like
the false prophetesses of old under the arm-holes of our clerical
brethren. Let us treat the ministers with all tenderness and respect,
but let us be careful how we cherish in their hearts the idea that they
are of more importance to a cause than other men. I rejoice when they
take hold heartily. I love and honor some ministers with whom I have
been associated in the anti-slavery ranks, but I do deeply deplore, for
the sake of the cause, the prevalent notion, that the clergy must be
had, either by persuasion or by bribery. They will not need persuasion
or bribery, if their hearts are with us; if they are not, we are better
without them. It is idle to suppose that the kingdom of heaven cannot
come on earth, without their co-operation. It is the Lord’s work,
and it must go forward with or without their aid. As well might the
converted Jews have despaired of the spread of Christianity, without
the co-operation of Scribes and Pharisees.

Let us keep in mind, that no abolitionism is of any value, which is
not accompanied with deep, heartfelt repentance; and that, whenever
a minister sincerely repents of having, either by his apathy or his
efforts, countenanced the fearful sin of slavery, he will need no
inducement to come into our ranks; so far from it, he will abhor
himself in dust and ashes, for his past blindness and indifference
to the cause of God’s poor and oppressed: and he will regard it as a
privilege to be enabled to do something in the cause of human rights.
I know the ministry exercise vast power; but I rejoice in the belief,
that the spell is broken which encircled them, and rendered it all but
blasphemy to expose their errors and their sins. We are beginning to
understand that they are but men, and that their station should not
shield them from merited reproof.

I have blushed for my sex when I have heard of their entreating
ministers to attend their associations, and open them with prayer. The
idea is inconceivable to me, that Christian women can be engaged in
doing God’s work, and yet cannot ask his blessing on their efforts,
except through the lips of a man. I have known a whole town scoured to
obtain a minister to open a female meeting, and their refusal to do so
spoken of as quite a misfortune. Now, I am not glad that the ministers
do wrong; but I am glad that my sisters have been sometimes compelled
to act for themselves: it is exactly what they need to strengthen them,
and prepare them to act independently. And to say the truth, there is
something really ludicrous in seeing a minister enter the meeting,
open it with prayer, and then take his departure. However, I only
throw out these hints for the consideration of women. I believe there
are solemn responsibilities resting upon us, and that in this day of
light and knowledge, we cannot plead ignorance of duty. The great moral
reformations now on the wheel are only practical Christianity; and
if the ministry is not prepared to labor with us in these righteous
causes, let us press forward, and they will follow on to know the Lord.


                              CONCLUSION.

I have now, my dear sister, completed my series of letters. I am
aware, they contain some new views; but I believe they are based on
the immutable truths of the Bible. All I ask for them is, the candid
and prayerful consideration of Christians. If they strike at some
of our bosom sins, our deep-rooted prejudices, our long cherished
opinions, let us not condemn them on that account, but investigate
them fearlessly and prayerfully, and not shrink from the examination;
because, if they are true, they place heavy responsibilities upon
women. In throwing them before the public, I have been actuated solely
by the belief, that if they are acted upon, they will exalt the
character and enlarge the usefulness of my own sex, and contribute
greatly to the happiness and virtue of the other. That there is a root
of bitterness continually springing up in families and troubling the
repose of both men and women, must be manifest to even a superficial
observer; and I believe it is the mistaken notion of the inequality of
the sexes. As there is an assumption of superiority on the one part,
which is not sanctioned by Jehovah, there is an incessant struggle
on the other to rise to that degree of dignity, which God designed
women to possess in common with men, and to maintain those rights and
exercise those privileges which every woman’s common sense, apart from
the prejudices of education, tells her are inalienable; they are a part
of her moral nature, and can only cease when her immortal mind is
extinguished.

One word more. I feel that I am calling upon my sex to sacrifice what
has been, what is still dear to their hearts, the adulation, the
flattery, the attentions of trifling men. I am asking them to repel
these insidious enemies whenever they approach them; to manifest by
their conduct, that, although they value highly the society of pious
and intelligent men, they have no taste for idle conversation, and
for that silly preference which is manifested for their personal
accommodation, often at the expense of great inconvenience to their
male companions. As an illustration of what I mean, I will state a fact.

I was traveling lately in a stage coach. A gentleman, who was also
a passenger, was made sick by riding with his back to the horses. I
offered to exchange seats, assuring him it did not affect me at all
unpleasantly; but he was too polite to permit a lady to run the risk of
being discommoded. I am sure he meant to be very civil, but I really
thought it was a foolish piece of civility. This kind of attention
encourages selfishness in woman, and is only accorded as a sort of
quietus, in exchange for those _rights_ of which we are deprived. Men
and women are equally bound to cultivate a spirit of accommodation;
but I exceedingly deprecate her being treated like a spoiled child,
and sacrifices made to her selfishness and vanity. In lieu of these
flattering but injurious attentions, yielded to her as an inferior, as
a mark of benevolence and courtesy, I want my sex to claim nothing from
their brethren but what their brethren may justly claim from them,
in their intercourse as Christians. I am persuaded woman can do much
in this way to elevate her own character. And that we may become duly
sensible of the dignity of our nature, only a little lower than the
angels, and bring forth fruit to the glory and honor of Emanuel’s name,
is the fervent prayer of

                                       Thine in the bonds of womanhood,

                                                       SARAH M. GRIMKE.



                          Transcriber’s Notes

Errors in punctuation have been fixed.

Page 7: “Thy both” changed to “They both”

Page 8: “flesh, flowl” changed to “flesh, fowl”

Page 9: “moral responsibilites” changed to “moral responsibilities”

Page 21: “Pastoral Lerter” changed to “Pastoral Letter”

Page 25: “messenger of Jehevah” changed to “messenger of Jehovah”

Page 36: “and someties” changed to “and sometimes”

Page 43: In the footnote, “de famille on de” changed to “de famille ou
de” and “Paris and Loudon” changed to “Paris and London”

Page 48: “os well as” changed to “as well as”

Page 50: “making a waistcoast” changed to “making a waistcoat”

Page 57: “he mean time” changed to “the mean time”

Page 61: “INTELLLECT OF WOMAN” changed to “INTELLECT OF WOMAN”

Page 67: “Christian countres” changed to “Christian countries”

Page 70: “glorions reformations” changed to “glorious reformations”

Page 79: “der husband’s” changed to “her husband’s”

Page 89: “the same gound” changed to “the same ground”

Page 101: “but hardende” changed to “but hardened”

Page 118: “so seduously” changed to “so sedulously”

Page 120: “lusses naturæ” changed to “lusus naturæ”

Page 122: “forst ernness” changed to “for sternness”

Page 128: “woman can can do much” changed to “woman can do much”




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